Perceptions: Each of us have a very different view of what others actually think or like...look at this abstract painting and verbalize what you see in it; ie, like leaves, shells, swirls, etc. Believe me, we will not have the same perception. Our minds take in an influx of information minute by minute so what we hear, see or think cannot be processed immediately...so a version of your perceptions may not be viable at the time of the process. Studies show that most people are thinking about themselves and the problems they are dealing with rather than thinking about the feelings of others. #thinkoutsidethebox #howreallyothersviewyou #psychology #badfeelingsaboutwhatothersthink #lowselfesteem #imaginationofwhatothersthinkaboutyou (at Raleigh, North Carolina)