I'm thinking about this now. I'd accept a coffee irl, but online feels different. To that, I've always said no thanks, if people ask. But then, I have a secure job, and I don't need the help. If others don't, it's fine if they accept a tip from someone who liked their work, no? The gift economy can flex to include money, I think, since we live in a world that uses it. Just as a gift, though, like a piece of fanart, or a really glowing rec. Not as payment. What do you think? Still no?
Just personally for me, still a no, hence why I’m not making a kofi for the person who wanted to give me money for my fic, BUT, it’s acceptable if other people want to do it. What gets me is the paterons etc who give like a tease of their work, and only let those who pay them see/read the whole thing. THAT’S what makes me feel really just NO. Like how long until there are no free fics and arts, you know?