When I first got to the mansion, I happened upon Hugh O'Brian, thought he was Hef, and felt let down in a way. I expected him to be more charming. Later in the evening, I met the real deal, and of course quickly abandoned my initial host.
We hit it off so remarkably well that I was surprised, because I did have a preconceived notion about Hef, that he was one of those guys with the on line you're supposed to fall for, like "Hey, babe, I can make you a star." Yada, yada. And he wasn't like that at all. He's very genuine. I will say that in bed, Hef was inventive, imaginative, romantic, very modern and open minded, young. I hear he's out there again. Might as well die with a smile on your face.