The Subtle Relationship is an energetic bond I formed with the humans I encountered during my time on Earth as a Tantra Coach. These stories, tutorials, and experiences represent events that may have happened in 3D reality, in another realm, or simply in the mind of the Infinite Observer. You must use your discernment and intuition to decide how you should process the information below.
Hundreds of women have found my aura and teachings attractive over the past few years. They come from all walks of life, yet have one major similarity. They all have an enhanced sense of discernment. It takes a special woman to jump onto my frequency and immediately be able to recognize my gifts. Unfortunately, this level of discernment has a major downside as well.
The more discerning you are, the harder it may become for you to find someone who wants to have a romantic, human relationship with you. You can go out on a lot of dates, but at some point, the relationship doesn’t progress any further, and that is mainly because of the intensity of your intuition. Not every man is sound enough to handle a discerning woman. Here’s why:
A discerning woman asks deep questions. A discerning woman will probe further into your life and ask questions you may not be prepared to answer. Even on the first date, she will dig deeper and ask personal and philosophical questions–she will rarely enjoy a shallow conversation.
She is honest. Perhaps, maybe even seem too honest–often direct. A discerning woman takes her integrity seriously, and one thing she believes in is honesty. If you ask her anything, she will tell you the truth, and she cherishes the same from you.
A discerning woman knows what and who she wants. A discerning woman will often know right away if she likes you and doesn’t need to date around or explore her other options to be sure of her feelings. Her heart only beats for a special few people, and she knows them right away or after a few conversations.
A deep relationship is what she desires. She wants long conversations about your life. Your past stories, your pain, and how she can add value to your life are all things she wants to hear about and understand. She wants a genuine relationship that goes beyond going out and having fun. Fun can happen, but it is the fun of profound intimacy. It is the fun of attunement at the soul level.
A discerning woman is not afraid of intimacy. She is not afraid of getting closer or risking getting hurt. She doesn’t think it will entrap her freedom or make her vulnerable. Her discernment and intimacy go hand in hand, and she will always cherish the beauty of intimacy in relationships.
A discerning woman sees through you. She can see who you really are and what makes you vulnerable. She is not one to hold back from pointing out what she sees in you or how well she can read you. Even though it makes you uncomfortable, she wants you to know that she understands you and that you can be yourself in her presence.
This kind of woman craves consistency. She gets turned off by inconsistency or flaky behavior. She desires a strong connection and a solid bond, and she knows that consistency is the foundation of that bond. A discerning woman will not participate in dating games.
A discerning woman is intense. She may be slightly intimidating, or you may find her inspiring because she brings intensity and passion to everything she does. Her emotions are intense, and so are her thoughts. She will never be indifferent to things that matter to her. Not everyone is strong enough or has discovered their own self-worth enough to handle this intensity and passion.
This kind of woman only knows how to love deeply. If you can’t love her deeply, she will walk away. She doesn’t know how to date someone she’s really into casually or be friends with someone she has feelings for. A discerning woman knows when someone can’t meet her halfway, and she will slowly detach herself from anyone who is not willing to give her the deep love she is looking for.
A discerning woman won’t wait for you. She will not wait for you to make up your mind or watch you be hesitant about her. She is strong and passionate and will not waste her emotions on someone who doesn’t appreciate their discernment. Even though she is looking for a unique love, a discerning woman is not afraid of being on her own.
Alistaire C. Evans | ACE 2030
