Jun 17
"decentre trans men" when were trans men ever centred. show me. show me sources. show me what time in history trans men were centred. you cant.
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"decentre trans men" when were trans men ever centred. show me. show me sources. show me what time in history trans men were centred. you cant.
it is genuinely concerning to me how many people on this website don't think hating on trans men is transphobic.
they'll say "omg look at these whiney transandrocunt theyfab birthday boys" and get surprised when you tell them that that's transphobic
" he was a woman who just went by a mans name in public and in private, only used he / him, wore mans clothes, lived his life fully as a man and would correct anyone who said he was a woman, so she clearly was a woman who just pretended to be a man to escape the patriarchy " is the historical trans guy equivalent of the " they were just really close friends / roommates " that people use to avoid acknowledging that a historical figure is gay
a trans man / trans masc asking you not to call them girl isn't them being rude btw. I've seen several people say and have had many people say to me personally that me saying " hey please don't call me girl " is being rude and implying that i hate women / girls. using gendered terms for a trans person who specifically has said that they aren't comfortable with it is still misgendering, yes, even if they're a trans man / trans masc.
edit: i mean this in the nicest way possible but please stop derailing this post. this post was about my personal experience as a trans masc but like. most of the replies are talking about " if this was about trans fems then- ". i dont have a problem with transfems relating to my posts, and i know that being trans will mean we have a lot of overlapping experiences, but this post is SPECIFICALLY about trans mascs being called girl, not transfems being called dude. again, not trying to be rude here, just this post was about transmascs. ( no hate to anyone in the notes who did say stuff about transfems being called dude though, that is a real issue that needs to be discussed. ) ( its 2am and i havent slept so idk if my wording made sense / if it came off as rude sorry )
quick ! the exorsexists aren't mad enough ! start using more xenogenders and micro labels ! start using more neopronouns ! choose a " weird " name ! be more loud ! don't shut up when they tell you to !
someone will say " stop trying to make feminism centre men " and youll look at the post they were referencing and its just a trans man or intersex man saying " hey it would be nice to be included in conversations about reproductive rights that directly affect us "
me saying i used to be a cis girl is not me misgendering myself. acknowledging my own fucking experiences isnt me misgendering myself.
someone will be marked red on Shinigami eyes and you'll look on their blog to see what transphobic stuff they did and they just like. are intersex. like that's the act of transphobia they committed. they're just marked as transphobic because obviously its transphobic to be intersex ( sarcasm ). or their act of transphobia is being a trans guy. because everyone knows that being trans is transphobic ( also sarcasm ).
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