Omg Kitty :( So last night was my 4th night. I'm having trouble dancing on stage and talking to guys. Talking to guys is always so awkward and personal, they always want to know my life & whats next and why I'm here. It honestly depresses me. Dancing on stage is depressing me too. All the other girls do pole tricks and they dance so gracefully to every song... and all I do is move my hips side to side... I'm so insecure. I might not go in for while. I fucking suck. I know fri & sat is $$$ but :(
If you don’t go in you won’t get better. No one was a good dancer their first week trust me, you will ONLY get better if you push forward and keep trying. Stage doesn’t matter, as long as your smiling and looking sexy you can just move your hips all you want. You don’t have to do pole tricks. You should watch some of the other girls stages and do some of the floor work moves you see them do. Don’t straight up copy their moves if you see them do something unique but if you see a lot of girls doing a similar move try that out next time you go on stage, or even in a mirror at home so you can see what it looks like. Talking to guys is easy. You should come up with a script that you say to every customer to take the pressure off of you. Example of what I would say:Me: Hey baby how are you?Him: good how are you?Me: I’m great! what brings you here tonight?Him: bachelor party, came to relax etcMe: Oh nice ;) So have you been in here before or is it your first time?Him: first time, been here before etcMe: oh cool! Are you planning on having lots of fun tonight?Him: yeah, a little bit, etcMe: well you should come have some fun in the back with me! I give the sexiest dances. That’s just an example of what I might say, but you can of course move words around, add things, talk longer. I like keeping it short and sweet especially at the club i am currently at where there’s a big party vibe and everything’s really upbeat and exciting. Another thing I like to say to them is “You’ll have way more fun with me than sitting out here ;)”But yeah I personally save the long conversation for when I’m doing a bunch of dances or in a VIP room with a customer because I don’t like to spend all that time with someone who maybe won’t buy something right then. I really suggest you make a script! :)
