#i hate fighting

[lettucemakar]

well. didn't enjoy that

[tiredofitallbutthegothamway]

The Mysterious Case of the Disney Mystery Bag and My Current Identity Crisis

So, my mom once told me I “don’t have anger issues.” This is a lie. A cruel, misleading, false statement. Let me explain.

I bought three Disney mystery bags (yes, the ones where you never get the character you want, always a tragic twist), one for me and one for each of my little brothers. I was super excited. Like, genuinely hyped. Finally, a little dose of joy in the form of a weird plastic figure I can throw in a drawer until I forget about it—classic me. Anyway, I open my bag, and I get Goofy. So I’m thinking, alright, fine. Not the dream, but whatever.

Then my younger bro gets Edna Mode. And I'm like, okay, not bad, she’s iconic, I get it. But also—NO. Because I wanted Edna. So, I asked my little bro if he’d like to trade. He said, “No.” And let me tell you, that is when something in me snapped.

I got angry, I threw the toy on the floor (very dramatic, very effective), stormed away, and now I'm currently sitting in my car. Alone. Having just inhaled the donut that was meant for him. Yeah, I said it. A donut. It was blue, with white sprinkles, and it was meant for him... but I ate it. In less than 30 seconds. I don't know what happened. One second it was in my hands, the next, it was gone. And now, he’s going to find out there was a donut and I ate it, but he doesn’t even know it existed.

He doesn’t even know who Edna Mode is! But I’m sitting here, full of regret, wondering why I threw my toy on the floor and why I shoved a donut into my mouth with the ferocity of someone who just got betrayed by Goofy.

But hey, I’m self-reflecting, right? This is growth. Paramore is on, I'm listening to “Hard Times,” and I’m thinking, “Yeah, life’s hard. But at least I’m becoming self-aware.”So to sum up:I won’t ever touch Goofy again.

I’m not telling my mom because she’ll take away my phone and ground me forever (I know, I’m 21, but I’m still a child in her eyes).I’m going to eat my second brother’s donut later (he also got Goofy, which... makes me wonder if Goofy is just my nemesis at this point).And finally, Hard Times and me? We’re one now.

Also, I got the "Heroes of Olympus" at the flea market today, and I’m LOVING it. Leo Valdez and Festus on the cover? YES. Leo’s basically me, if I didn’t have anger issues and a deep-seated book addiction. But honestly, Leo might have anger issues too, now that I think about it... He just hides it better.

[kebriones]

If a game has a little house that you can decorate and fishing, you can use it to trap me for fifty to seventy-five years.

[squirmydonnie]

My cousin and brother are fighting and I don't want to have to break it up again

[amazonworrier]

How is Brittana your favorite ship but also you think it’s overrated 😂😂

Quite easily actually, haha.

I love what the show gave us. I love all the background Heya moments in s1, I loved their season 2 arc. I love how much Britt believes in Santana and sees her for who she really is, rather than who she pretends to be in front of everyone else; and I love how, equally, Santana gets Brittany better than anyone else, and believes in her too. Season 6 Brittana brings me so much joy, because it's really a testament to how far they've come. They're so happy, and sure of their love for each other, compared to when they first started out and Britt found the relationship confusing/Santana didn't believe Britt loved her back. To this day, I get this warm fuzzy feeling whenever I think about them both. They'll always be special to me. They're my wonderful, problematic, sapphic queen b*tches.

But as a fandom I feel like we give them way too much credit, and frankly we let them off easy when the fact is they were kind of awful at times - they'd probably be the first to admit that too. Britt outed Santana (TWICE) before Finn even learnt what a lesbian was, Santana convinced Britt to cheat on Artie by lying to her, Britt released their sex tape without permission and never apologised, Santana was HELLA biphobic about Britt when she first got together with Dani. I could go on, but you get the idea.

So yeah... that's what I meant by 'overrated.' I just wish more people could love them despite their issues, rather than overlooking them. Brittana were flawed individuals and they made mistakes as a couple, because they were TEENAGERS and teenagers suck sometimes, guys. Of course they're going to make mistakes. That doesn't mean I can't love them, or that they didn't deserve their happy ending. They grew together, and I think that's beautiful. But when we hype them up to the extent that certain *cough* Tiktok/Youtube *cough* areas of fandom do, we are overlooking that growth, and I hate it.

As an aside (because this answer wasn't long-winded enough already), I actually feel like Brittana being so overhyped is the reason they've become so divisive among the new crop of glee fans. A large number of people take all of the good stuff as proof of Brittana being the most AMAZING couple ever, who never did anything wrong, and ignore any evidence to the contrary. Then anyone who doesn't buy into that delusion ends up taking the bad stuff as undeniable proof that they were the worst couple to ever exist.

Personally, I don't think it's that black and white. So I'll sit here firmly in my quiet little fandom grey area, watching you guys fight it out while writing fix-it fics to give these gals the depth they deserved, because it makes me and my two loyal fic readers feel better. Lol.

[simpeachie]

Hi loves! Let me just address something real quick because my blog is place of peace and diversity and love. There’s no room for hate, fights, arguments etc and if I delete somethings is because I dont think it’s healthy for the sake of this blog or me. I know what I am talking about, and I know things even if people think I dont. I made my statement, and I wont address any further because I am not going to feed negativity in my blog, I already have enough of that in my real life. I was never rude or offensive to anyone, I’ve been nothing but loving to everyone here so please don’t be rude to me. I’m a person with feelings too. Also saying stuff on anonymous isnt something that looks very good either, hiding behind anonymous but anyways I also disabled anon bc I honestly for real I dont want nor need negativity in my blog. Thank you. And I love you all ♥

[jack-radical]

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