Going through one of the same things that I went through as a 17 year old, as a 36 year old adult is fucking wild.
thought I knew better
wtf why are full men still the same as teenagers
why, why, why is this happening to me again?
Dudes thrown into the same space as me by happenstance need to get used to the idea that, while I fully want to be friends, I am not going to date them if I don't have feelings for them.
This is an adult cis white dude wanting to date me, the most non-binary queer bisexual in the general vicinity, when I do not want to date him.
I set boundaries, I told him in the most clear way possible I wasn't interested in dating him, I trusted him (because he told me he respected my boundaries etc), and he got close to me and then he overstepped my boundaries.
Fucking still have to work with him though.
Worst thing: miss his friendship. FFS.














