There is a tale whispered from reincarnate to reincarnate, intended to soothe the pain of remembering.
It is said that there once was a man with a silver tongue, so clever and persuasive that he could convince the stones themselves to wake up and dance with him. He was beautiful, with hair as dark as the night and smile as bright as the stars, and though he had many friends, and more admirers, there was only one person who was closest to his heart.
It was a woman, a warrior of strong body and stronger heart, who carried a sword that had not magic, but could cut through stone for its sharpness. She was brave, and cunning, and, above all, she believed in herself and in him.
Their hearts were joined. Not in marriage, for the woman did not love the man in that way, but in a ceremony that would become the precursor of the partnership only reincarnates have. Although she did not love him in the way of romantic stories, she did love him, and promised to spend the rest of her life by his side. The man, who loved her as well, promised the same.
And so they spent many years in harmony, until, as is told in a different tale, the man fell in battle.
The woman did not weep, for not all grieve in the same way. She laughed instead, a sound bitterer and more painful than any tears, and kept her silence for many days.
In the thirtieth day, she spoke.
"Do we know of any human who might have saved a loved one from the land of the dead?", the woman asked, although not so clearly and not all at once, for the days spent in silence had damaged her voice.
One of her friends, too glad that she was speaking to be wary of the subject, answered.
"We know of Orpheus, although he failed."
"Even so,'' the woman said, "it seems arrogant to assume that there weren't any."
"Even if there weren't", spoke a different friend of hers, known more for their philosophy than for their tact, "it does not mean that there will never be one."
"That's true", the woman said, and silenced herself once again.
That night, the woman left her room and her friends behind. The path she took is not known, nor how she found it, except that there had been many crows there on that day and the next. What is known is that she found a way into the land of the dead and that, without telling any of her friends, she took it.
It was foolish, for her friends would have followed her and their skills and loyalty would have been helpful, but it is impossible to be always wise.
She walked for what felt like many hours, although she did not grow more tired. The sky grew greyer, and the very Earth seemed to lose color the more she advanced in the path. The woman could feel eyes staring at her back. She did not turn around, for she was not that much of a fool.
After a while, there was a black river and its Ferryman.Â
"You do not belong to the land of the dead", it said.
The woman thought of lying, for her partner had been the one with the silver tongue, but she had lived long enough by his side to have learned some of his tricks.
"Am I not mortal?", she said. "Are my bones not destined to decay?"
"But not yet", the Ferryman answered.
"No, not yet for me. But there is someone I love and was taken, and I want him back, if he wants to return."
"All will return in their specific time", the Ferryman said.
"But it will not be the man I knew, as the house I live in now is not the house I grew up in."
"And what will you offer me for the price of the passage?"
"Why must there be a price?", the woman said.Â
The Ferryman said nothing, but allowed her to get on the boat. The woman did not look at the shadows under the water, for she knew she did not want to see what was there, and they did not demand her attention.
On the other shore, she thanked the Ferryman. It bowed its head to her, and kept rowing.Â
The woman kept walking. All was grey, now, although she knew that it looked so to her because her heart was still beating. The spirits she could feel around the path were not all unhappy. It was not a terrible place to live in.
 After a while, there was a crow. It spoke in human language.
"What is a living human doing in the land of the dead?", it asked.
"Taking back what was given to me."
"Yes. Aren't you?", and the woman kept walking.
The crow did not follow her, for it was afraid.
The deeper the woman walked into the land of the dead, the darker everything grew, until she had to make use of a gift her late partner had given her: a single crystal in a chain, which had absorbed the sunlight while it was available, and now gave it back.
Guided by the sunlight she had taken into the land where no sun was ever seen, she walked on.
After some time, there was a ball of light.
"Who are you to decide who is to live and who is to die?", it asked her.
"Who is a doctor to decide? Who is a woman?`` she told it. "We have been deciding since the beginning of humanity. Do not pretend otherwise."
The light did not follow her, for it was ashamed.
Finally, she arrived at the castle where Hades lives. The skeletons at the door did not stop her.
"Leave your weapon behind", spoke out Hades from his throne, "for it will do you no good in my palace."
The woman hesitated, for her sword had saved her life many times, but finally she left her weapon at the door.
"Hades", she said. "Your Majesty." And then turned to his wife; for it was winter on the surface, and she was with her husband. "My Lady."
"It has been a long time since a human last tried to save a loved one from us", Hades said.
"Not from you, Your Majesty,'' she answered, "but from death."
"That is true", said the Lady.
"Do you not know that it is considered wrong for one who was dead to be brought back to the land of the living?"
"Then, Your Majesty,'' the woman answered Hades, "you should keep me here in your halls forever, for my heart has once stopped beating as well."
"What is the limit, then?"
"We are not your gods", the Lady said.Â
"You are not. I have no gods, except the one my people raised me with."
"Does she not disapprove of what you're trying to do?"
"I see no reason why anything I ever do would be of her interest."
Finally, Hades sighed, for he knew mere words would not convince the woman. "What do you have to offer to us for your beloved?", he asked.
"I had my friends", the woman said, " but I left them behind with the living. I had my fearlessness, but I left it behind in the path. I had my uncertainty, which I left behind with the Ferryman, and my unwillingness to admit fear, which I left with the crow, and my indecision, which I left behind with the light. My sword, I have left behind as well."
"What do you still have?"
"I have myself,'' the woman said, "and everything I have learned. I have no silver tongue, but I have strong arms."
"Away from this palace. You have nothing I want."
"That does not bother me."
"I am,'' the woman said. "Are you not?"
"Why should he come not and not any other?"
"His name will be said until the end of the time,'' the woman said. "And while the name is alive, is not the person as well?"
And Hades paused, for his wife had rested a hand on his arm.
"Do you love the one you have come to save?", the Lady asked.
"What if he does not desire your rescue?"
"Then I will leave him here, and go back to the land of living until such time in which we will see each other again."
The Lady bowed her head in understanding. "Then leave here your sword forever more,'' she said, "for I understand that it is a part of you. And for that price, we will send you back with you beloved."
"I am grateful, my lady,'' the woman said, "but that certainly cannot be all of the price?"
"It is not, for you have done your part, and part of the price must be paid by him. If he is willing to go back, it will be with the full memory of what happened to him, and that is a price high enough."
"I understand." She did not, but one day she would.
They say that was the first reincarnate; as the Lady waved her hand and the man was alive again in front of the woman. They embraced each other, for neither of them could believe what had been done.
"Do not look back", the Lady warned the woman as she started her way back to the surface.Â
And although the woman was suffering of doubt many times in her way back, she remembered well the tale of Orpheus which had been told to her, and in no moment did she turn around. The ball of light followed her, and she did not turn. The crow followed her, and she did not turn. And when she got onto the boat of the Ferryman, she left them behind on the other shore.
Who she did not leave behind was the man, who wrapped his arms around her as soon as they were back in the land of the living. And they lived in harmony for the rest of their lives, until such time in which they saw the land of the dead once more.
That is why the Lady is considered the patroness of all reincarnates; for she created the first of them out of someone's love.