ive decided to talk about where on the aro spectrum I fall!
now, im defenetly nebularomantic due to my AuDHD but there's other aro labels i identify with.
and for some reason i have a compulsion to find labels that closest explain what i feel like, so theres gonna be a few difernt aro identites here!
Angled aroace
yes its an aroace label instead of just an aro one- but i wanted to add it.
basically when your ace-spec & aro-spec, and you feel a tertiary attraction significant enough to you that you place it along side the other two.
the one that i feel is either alterous or queerplatonic. or both.
Aroflux
when you fluctuate across the aromantic spectrum, i definitely go from romance favorable to neutral to repulsed and back again on a unknown schedule.
but through the changes some parts still feel stagnant, such as:
Demiromantic & Recipromantic
one is about not feeling romantic attraction untill you have an emotional bond with a person, the other is only feeling attraction when you know a person is attracted to you.
if i were to ever be in a romantic relationship i dont think id feel romantic attracton untill 1-i knew they felt that way about me & 2- i had an attachment to them.
Cupioromantic
this is about wanting a romantic relationship despight not having the attraction.
which i do. even tho i dont feel attraction to anyone (yet) i would like to be in a romantic relationship.
Lovepunk & Lovequeer
2 difrent identities that reject amatonormitivity and the oppression that aspec individuals experiance
Softromo
this isnt an identity but a type of relationship that has low levels of romance, like a mix between a queerplatonic relationship & a romantic relationship
its just a relatioship i'd like to have.
Iodic
a type of relationship used by aro-specs to describe their idea relationship.
said relationship could be queerplatonic, appromour, delamour, or something simmilar
