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Nora i feel like you’re the best one to talk to about this, I have a nswf question lol. I’m a virgin still at 21 and not by choice just no one has ever liked me, it bothers me not totally because of societal pressures (it does a bit) but more because I feel like I’m missing something.. I’m kind of at the point where I just want to get it over with... but then I feel like I’ve gone this far should I just keep waiting around until someone likes me like that... help lol p.s ily

ily right back baby!! though that might be how you’re feeling, i can assure you you’re not missing anything! personally i would never have been able to do it for the first time hadn’t i been with my ex bf cos i needed to know i was in the hands of someone who 100% had my best intentions at heart and someone who knew me well, but most of my mates’ first times were one night stands! it’s totally up to how you are feeling! if the pressure of having sex is coming from society and the enviornment around you (which ultimately makes you pressure yourself more) and not from you feeling ready and knowing what you want, then i’d say don’t - for the lack of a better expression - get it over with. it’s also not about how far you’ve gotten without having sex in terms of age, what everything is ultimately about is feeling good while having sex and feeling good enough to have it, if it makes sense? you need to be in an alright place mentally, cos if your head’s not there when you’re about to get down and dirty, then it’s not gonna be enjoyable for any of you! everything boils down to how you feel. if you’re out on town and meet someone who wants to have sex with you and you want to have sex with them, go for it! but if you meet someone and you don’t feel like it cos you’d rather be with someone special when you first have sex, then you wait! i’m sorry this isn’t much help cos i’m not giving you a straight answer, but it all boils down to how you’re feeling, babes! hope this helped some! ilysm and i’m always here if you need to talk!!

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okay so i followed you a longg time ago but then you became inactive for a while and i was so sad but now you’re back and the memes are stronger than ever..... you’re one of my favorite mutuals and i lovey our blog so much!!