I saw your post about the nonbinary / trans thing, and I'm so glad I'm not the only one that feels that way. I like the concept of being nonbinary, but I keep finding that I keep trying to fit myself back on the gender binary somewhere. I just sit there thinking that maybe I'm trans??? But then I feel like I don't 100% fit that either...
hey bud, trans and nonbinary aren’t mutually exclusive labels! lots of people (myself included) identify as both. if you think you might be trans then it’s perfectly fine to just identify as that and not have to worry about the specifics of your identity and whether you’re binary/nonbinary for now, or ever for that matter!but otherwise, i think we feel the same. part of me thinks society will never recognise me, so being and existing as a nonbinary person is like this unattainable ideal that i will never truly reach? so i force myself into a box that’s like “i’m mostly male though, don’t worry” solely for the convenience of cis ppl which is. effed up really. and i hate it but ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ it is what it is!
