I think it’s safe to say we all want connection. Maybe not in this exact moment. Maybe not as the most important, crucial aspect of our lives. Maybe not before we find ourselves or what we’re truly passionate about. But at some point on our journey, we long to intertwine our soul with someone else, to trust, to let them in, to have a person to laugh with, share dreams with, choose and grow with. We all want to find someone to believe in this crazy thing called love with. But we mess up when we look so desperately for it. When we put our relationship status as the center of our lives. When we spend all our time obsessing over the couples around us, who we’re loving or loved by, where we fit. Research has quite clearly shown that a strong belief in destiny can actually be harmful to you and the success of your relationships. Here's why: Having the mentality of believing that you've found your soul mate is related to all kinds of unhealthy thinking about your love life. Pic repost via @sasa_elebea #importantmessage #spreadlove #spreadkindness #sasaelebea #blogger https://www.instagram.com/p/B8sRE4ghFpZ/?igshid=1xqwqj3yvzwj4
