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Want a better relationship?  Then, be a better YOU.

That’s right.  It’s easy to blame someone else for not making you feel fulfilled or happy.  

But, when you blame others, you give them external control over you and appoint yourself as the victim. 

Take control and know the answer is within you.  

You, not someone, is responsible for your feelings, reactions, self-esteem, and happiness.  

Remember, you’re the one who chose, hooked up, dated, married, and stayed with the person you’re complaining about.

So, if want a better relationship?  Be a better YOU.  

Improving ourselves improves our self-esteem and decision making abilities.  When we feel better about ourselves, we make better decisions.  

When we have good self-esteem, we don’t and won’t tolerate riff-raff and chaos.  We make better choices.

Remember, everything starts with and ends with yourself.  You control you, not someone else.

If you’re looking to switch your partner, first work on improving yourself.  Consider individual therapy or @Imago_Relationships

Therapy to recalibrate your mindset and emotional balance.

Be a better you.

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How Can I Improve My Self Esteem

How Can Teens Improve Self Esteem - One evidence-based approach to increasing self-esteem is through the education of Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy. This type of therapy is often used in mental health counseling to encourage patients to become aware of their feelings and respond to them. Visit https://trailsmomentum.com/blog/how-can-i-improve-my-self-esteem/

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Improve Self-Esteem with Ballroom Dancing

Improve Self-Esteem with Ballroom Dancing

Feeling a little down in the dumps lately? If so, here’s a thought. Why not use ballroom dancing as a way to improve your self-esteem? It’s a proven fact that learning to dance is guaranteed to make you feel good about yourself. Interested? Good.

To begin, you need to make the decision to take ballroom dance lessons.  Go ahead, do it. When you do, you’ll see that only good things will…

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5 Ways To Improve Your Teenager's Self-Esteem

Self-esteem is a person’s perception of their self-worth and is an important part of succeeding in life and being happy. How we view ourselves affects how we act with others and influences what we believe we can achieve. Teenagers commonly struggle with poor self-esteem because they are still developing a sense of who they are and what they are capable of. Fortunately, as a parent you can help your teenager develop a positive self-image and high self-esteem.

Think of building self-esteem in your teen the same as instilling them with confidence. Confidence gives us ambition, hope, and courage. Teenagers with high self-esteem, and confidence are more likely to take on new challenges, assume responsibility, take pride in accomplishments, and handle failure or setbacks in stride. On the other hand, teenagers who have low self-esteem and lack confidence are more likely to avoid challenges, be influenced by others, show disinterest, and doubt their own abilities.

As a parent you have a tremendous ability to improve your teenager’s self-esteem without them even knowing it. Here are 5 ways to instill confidence, build self-esteem, and bring out the best in your teenager.

1. Plenty of real praise: Make a habit of pointing out what you like about your teenager and not just the big stuff. For example, “I really like that I only have to ask you to do your homework once. You are a really responsible kid,” or “Thank you for taking your sister to soccer practice. You are a great brother,” or “I liked the way you handled that situation, that was very mature for your age.” Appropriate praise will reinforce good behaviors and help your teenager feel appreciated and good about what they do.  It is also important to give praise when you genuinely feel pleased with your teenager.  Do not give praise for praise’s sake because teenagers will be able to pick up on the inauthentic vibe and your praises will have less meaning for them.  It is a common misconception that praising your teenagers often will make them self-centered.  If you praise genuinely and respond to bad behavior firmly but without attacking their character there’s no reason to feel that praise will make your teenager a narcissist.  If you are happy with your teenager let them know it!

2. Avoid Comparisons: “You know, Evelyn’s kid Bobby got a full scholarship to go to Harvard. Maybe if you studied more…” Although many parents may use comparisons for motivational purposes, it most likely will leave your teenager feeling inferior and that you are disappointed in them, leaving them feeling that they are worth less than other teenagers you know.  Focus on what they can do to better themselves and improve on without making them feel they are not as good as other teens. Apply the same thinking to comparing siblings to avoid rivalries and feelings of favoritism.

3. Encourage healthy living: A big part of self-esteem is feeling good about your physical appearance and health. Prepare healthy meals for your teens and reward physical activity. After school sports or clubs can help develop a sense of belonging and structure. Planning family outings such as bike rides, walks, camping, or beach activities is a good way to encourage everyone in the family to move around a little more.  Remember that it’s your teenager’s health that matters not their physical appearance per say.  So when you talk to your teenager about it emphasize the healthy aspects of healthy diet and exercise and say that looking good is a nice bonus but it’s not the whole story. You want to send the message that you’ll love them no matter how they look and that what’s really important to you is their health not their appearance.

4. Don’t attack their character: Avoid criticism, name calling, or scolding during times of discipline. For example, responses to negative behavior such as “Why are you such a slob? Is it that hard to clean up after yourself?” can build up over time and instill a sense of worthlessness in your teen. Respond with the action you want such as “I want you to clean up dishes that you use.” Keeping your composure is key here. If your teenager doesn’t respond well create a rule around the issue and match it with a consequence.  Here you almost want to take yourself out of the equation.  The consequence is happening because they broke the rule not because you are unhappy with them or think less of them.  To help them feel empowered you can give them a choice of consequences that you feel comfortable with to choose from.  Feeling you have some control over your environment definitely supports self-esteem.

5. Help them feel accomplished: As teenagers get older their sense of self-esteem is less reliant on their relationship with their parents and more based on their actual abilities in the real world and their peer relationships.  Help your teenager find an activity that they excel at and encourage it. Being good or great at something helps children and teens gain overall confidence. Everyone has strengths, help them find their talents and let them know how pleased it makes you.

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