I'm on Quora and on TeenRant someone asked the question: "Hey everyone. My mom went through menopause early and my dad still wants to have sex. She always tells him no and he just doesn’t get it. I tried to find some answers online but everyone kept blaming my mom for not wanting to pleasure him. Im so confused. Are all men animals? What is with all this sex pressure?"
And some of the responses make me want to scream and cry and I'm fucking blind with rage.
Like..What the fuck has to be so DEEPLY FUCKING WRONG WITH YOU TO THINK THIS IS OK. I can't even find the fucking words to describe how painful this is and how wrong this is and God I feel so bad for the mother
I'm in tears this is so wrong
I'm so fucking sick of this shit
NO MEANS NO. RESPECT YOUR WIFE. RESPECT YOUR GIRLFRIEND. RESPECT YOUR S/O'S BOUNDARIES AND CHOICES
I DO NOT CARE HOW LONG YOU'VE BEEN TOGETHER OR HOW MANY TIMES THEY HAVE SAID YES
YOU MUST GET THEIR CONSENT
God Im so fucking pissed the fuck off.
NOT. OK.
Here was my response: Your mom is going through some rough changes and he needs to understand that. There are so many more things that happen to a women that can be mentally and/or physically painful. Sex can be one of those things. “The reduced sex drive is often caused by decreased estrogen levels, which can dampen arousal and result in sex being more painful.” In any case, your father is the one in the wrong. It is NOT her job to please him sexually. She vowed to love him and care for him, and sex is neither of those things. He can go back to using his hand like he did for the first few years of his life. A relationship can exist and be 100% healthy without sex, and if your father cannot realize that he needs to seek help or stop dating all together. To answer your question, no not all men are animals. However there’s such a big amount of them that are, it is safe to assume that all of them are until they prove otherwise. The sex pressure comes from men thinking they own women and thinking that women owe them. Specifically with women they are dating or are married to. This is 100% disgusting and wrong. No means no.












