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Marc C. Green, “Drained”

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Why Introverts Feel Drained Around the Wrong People But Energized Around the Right Ones

Some people leave you feeling tired. Others make you forget you were ever tired in the first place.

If you’re introverted, you’ve probably felt this before. You might even start to wonder if you’re bad at socializing, or why your energy feels so all over the place.

But what if it’s not about how social you are, but who you’re social with?

It’s not about how much energy you have

People often think that introverts have less social energy and get drained easily no matter who they’re with.

But that’s not entirely true.

Introverts can spend hours talking, laughing, and being fully present when they’re with the right people. Time passes quickly. Conversations feel natural, and you leave feeling full, not empty.

So what’s actually different when introverts are around the right people?

It comes down to how much mental and emotional effort your brain has to put into the interaction.

The hidden cost of being around the wrong people

Not “wrong” as in bad people, just not your people.

When you’re around someone who doesn’t really feel aligned with you, your brain just goes into overdrive.

You might notice yourself:

Thinking carefully before you speak 

Replaying what you just said to see if it sounded okay 

Forcing reactions so you don’t seem too quiet 

Trying to match their energy, humour, or pace 

Filling silences that feel uncomfortable 

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Attraction stance .PSDs

[PT: Attraction stance .PSDs]

Abstainer | Ambivalent | Averse

Desired | Desperate | Drained

Favorable | Giving | Impulsive

Indifferent | Interested | Obsessed

Oscillating | Piqued | Receiving

Repulsed | Starved

All templates can be downloaded here.

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tagging @radiomogai. Credits below the cut:

Abstainer template based off of these abstainer flags by @luxiomahariel

Ambivalent template based off of these ambivalent flags by @beyond-mogai-pride-flags

Averse template based off of this friendship averse flag by @revenant-coining (@daybreakthing)

Desired template based off these platonic favorability flags by @aroapl

Desperate template based off of these relationship desperate flags by @rwuffles

Drained template based off of these platonic favorability flags by @aroapl

Favorable template based off of these positive/favorable flags by @beyond-mogai-pride-flags

Giving template based off of these emotionally giving flags by @coinedbank

Impulsive template based off of these impulsive flags by @/theflaggerrrr

Indifferent template based off of these neutral/indifferent flags by @beyond-mogai-pride-flags

Interested template based off of this conflict interested flag by @coinedbank

Obsessed template based off of these obsessed flags by @ratbastardz

Oscillating template based off of these flags by @jamiieeez

Piqued template based off of these platonic favorability flags by @aroapl

Receiving template based off of these emotionally receiving flags by @coinedbank

Repulsed template based off of these repulsed/negative flags by @beyond-mogai-pride-flags

Starved template based off of these starved flags by @luxiomahariel

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