#inecurity

[feministinfp]

Affirmations

I haven’t posted in a while for several reasons - some good, some not so good. 

School has become much busier (not so good)

but I am in a new relationship with an amazing guy (good) 

I have had some serious self-esteem, insecurity and jealousy issues (not so good)

Since I am still very much struggling with getting over my boyfriend’s romantic and sexual past, and coming to terms with me myself a beautiful person, I decided I need to give myself some affirmations. 

Here are some truths about me: 

1. I am beautiful.

2. I am better than anyone in my boyfriend’s past. Including his ex, hook-ups, one night stands, girls he kissed or was interested in. He would not be with me if I weren’t the best he’s ever had. 

3. He said I am the most unique, kind, open person he’s met. That he could never find anyone else like me. 

4. I am intelligent. I am kind. I am genuine. I am loving. I am funny. I am so much more than my looks. 

5. I am my own person. I love me. Anyone is lucky to have me in their life. I deserve the best. I love me. 

[letssaynotonormal]

A man makes a personal confession about being pressured to look a certain way, and what does tumblr bloggers do?

Mock him and say his insecurities don't matter because he's white male. What the hell!?!?

A lot of bloggers on Tumblr make me sick to my stomach.

[aelenagance]

I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.

Marilyn Monroe