#input please

[boundfaerietales]

Based on my exes, I love a good misogynist. So, thoughts on an AU Gaston from Disney’s Beauty and the Beast (1991)?

Thoughts on an AU Gaston muse?

YES

NOPE

Lettie’s Boop Button Only Please

Voting ended onJul 12

[doll-misses-home]

Term coining maybeeee :00

Let me know if this is already a thing that exists, I'm just writing down my experience and I haven't really seen something like this before (More under cut for length)

Multifluid:

When ones identity frequently shifts to several unique identity sets, similar to how your gender shifts for genderfluidity- The differentiating factor being that all aspects of your identity shift, not just gender. For example: preferred name and pronouns, sexuality, romantic orientation, and often even beliefs/priorities/ideals

You could definitely also use this term if your identity frequently changes based on alterhuman kinshifts

For me at least (although I don't think this needs to be universal to use the term) it's hard to directly tell when you switch the set that you prefer, until you like directly. Think about it. It's not like "oh wow I prefer this set now" it's looking back and being like what the heck??? I identified as that??? What was I thinking??? I am most certainly not that! I know who I am!

under that same thing, you might experience having friends that know you by a completely different set because that's how you introduced yourself/ came out but that's not you anymore, or have written down identity figuring out things when I identifying with other sets, despite knowing very clearly that's not how you currently feel.

Anyway if this is a term that exists already somebody should let me know! I don't really care about being the one that coined it, I just haven't been able to find anything so I thought I'd make something if anybody felt like me

I also made a flag but I don't know how to share that because I can't put photos on my posts

But if anybody wants to know it that looks like I guess I could share that too.

Not that I think anybody's really going to see this lol

[fibromyalgicaf]

Something has maybe just clicked in my mind but I need to run it by some people first...

Is part of the journey to acceptance accepting that I have not accepted this and that I don't need to/can't rush it?

For some context, one of my current focuses is trying to accept my condition, limitations, and all the implications (e.g. that I can't work right now). I feel quite lost with how to go about this but I've had a few pieces of advice, one of which was to "meet yourself where you are". I'm not entirely sure if I get what that means but today I suddenly realised that (part of) what that could mean is that I just acknowledge that I haven't accepted reality and that's ok because it takes time.

Is the first step to reaching acceptance just sitting with the idea that I haven't accepted things and not stressing about it? Is this a silly question?

[cutepoop]

Got sidetracked with piecing together an alt for Frey. I can't decide which eye color I like best.

Which color eyes?

Brown

Green

Blue

Something else (tell me, please!)

Voting ended onJan 19, 2024

[howlcraft]

would it be cringe to use a voice changer in my streams LOLL

[raevenlywrites]

Heading off to work but I'd like to put out an official invitation:

If you have any good resources on writing a hijabi character, or articles on the daily life of those who wear a hijab, or any other reading you think would help me in writing Fazia, please feel free to send it to me! TYSM

[johnsrevelation]

should i have a sketchbook art-dump kinda sideblog?

[parker-razor]

quick question while i’m putting the finishing touches on the new chapter…. how would you guys feel about having the reader call Mando daddy?? i know some people don’t like that and it won’t become a dominant part of the series but i thought it’d be hot to explore….