Romo friends, just like some other categorically dangerous folk, you've been proven unworthy. I can't with the aphobia anymore. You must earn me; too long I've let too many of you trample across my sacred noetiscape. My friendship is not a placeholder. Just because my life isn't rooted in attraction doesn't mean you get to treat it as if it's less than. Just because I don't arbitrarily reserve my best only for romantic relationships doesn't mean you can shit on friendship. Just because your fucking is limited doesn't mean you get to degrade or make assumptions about mine. Just because you're a shitty friend doesn't mean I must be. Keep trying to make a fleeting feeling last a lifetime. Keep mistaking addiction for love. Keep making life decisions based on fantasies. Keep trying to force people to be ready for you. Don't you dare claim you're my friend when you really mean acquaintance. If you're going to abandon me for fantasies and fawning, you tell me on day one, not after I've shared my mind with you. You're not ready for this legendary friendship, this epic friendship, this noetiplosion. #AromanticPride #AroErosArrows #BlaQueer #noromo #noetisexual #polyamory #integratedfeminism #disabilities