Personally, no. I have been lucky enough to have chosen to live in two very liberal cities as an adult. I also have more privilege than both of my partners and can use the fact that I present as a nicely exotic white cis-femme who fits nicely within conventional beauty standards as a shield that allows me to be openly polyamorous.
My Hispanic-Asian partner faces more with discrimination for being polyam, especially in corporate America. He is already having to balance being a Tex-Asian in the Midwest. Ergo, he presents as pretty "traditional family values" to come across as safe for someone who white folk already see as not properly adhering to the prescribed Asian script.
My trans wife, through circumstance and spoon count, has for the most part left mainstream America, for the betterment of her sanity. I think i can say she is more worried about surviving late stage capitalism as a disabled neurodeviant transwoman. Being polyam helps her thrive.
