things you can do instead of copying someone !!
because the fictionkin community seems to have an issue with this
get offline for once and try to ground yourself to reality
ask yourself who you have been so far and who you actually are. try to notice your harmful patterns of mimicking others !!
stop searching for themes from other people and try to make one of your own (there's plenty of resources on many platforms)
dont kinfirm their kintypes out of spite (you will probably fail and be laughed at behind your back)
try and focus on YOUR life and not others, being parasocial to a complete stranger online is what people go to therapy for !!
don't vague post about your target, it only makes you look worse
don't stalk them, this one is so obvious. you can get into legal trouble for this (and in fact all of whatever you're doing)
stop trying to invade their spaces
stop ringing up their mutuals trying to take their spotlight, how is that even supposed to work ?
don't over-exaggerate every interaction you've had with them
stop attention seeking and making yourself look like the one who is being obsessed over in said situation
don't blame your target for every little inconvenience. the only one bringing yourself hurt is you <3
start looking at your target as an actual human being with a life as complex as yours. dehumanizing someone because of jealousy and your insecurities isn't okay
don't delve into serious communities they are in if you don't fit the requirements and you aren't educated about it. this is stupid and offensive to everyone !
stop trying to get more similar to them, whether you're actually doing something that they'd do or if you're spreading lies about yourself.
hope this helps (✿^‿^)
