don't wanna get too into the weeds in the tags of that post but fr I regret not learning to drive as a teenager even though I was far, far too anxious to drive as a teenager
and I don't WANNA drive and I might still be too anxious to drive tbh but the effect of my not being able to drive has intensified, and it makes things more difficult and affects my level of agency, and by extension, the agency of folks I am close to, and that sucks
and like we're making it work as best we can but hooboy I wish it wasn't so difficult














