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Everyone rally up and answer me this pls: how do I explain tumblr to a new blog??

Like????? I just showed up and wandered around until I figured out that there are very few if no rules at all how do i explain that to a regular human???

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My brain bugs every time that I remember that Wendy kissed Cartman before.

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I still live with my parents in their house and I fully acknowledge that it is a rare privilege and I am very grateful that I am blessed with parents that can support me while I finish my studies and don’t demand rent I am so so lucky and I am so aware that the only price i pay for this privilege is doing the housework

but my two older sisters always get really weird about me still living at home??? to the point where they have actually called me slurs like “don’t be like other wogs mooching off their parents”.

like I’m only 6 months away from being a fully qualified teacher and being able to earn proper good money, until then I don’t really have income that i could realistically live off...and when i try and tell my sisters that i’m just taking advantage of a privilege that will allow me to live comfortably until i can and will support myself, my sisters tell me i am not really “living”

even if i was gonna keep living with my parents/in their house forever - how is that not living? it pisses me off that people believe that just because you’re not doing the thing that they did, you’re somehow not living like i love where i live at the moment. i am close to my uni, close to where i work and easy access to public transport so i can get where i need to go without relying on others - the idea of moving out so i could fulfill the societal perception of ‘independence is illogical and unnecessary in my specific set of circumstances, yet my sisters act like there is something wrong with me for not doing it - again, i know this is a privilege and one i am very grateful for

but privilege isn’t a bad thing and i know that with my mental health the way it is and has been, if i had not been living at home i would most certainly be dead moreover, i would not have been able to cope with or afford school without the generosity of my parents and i repay them for this whenever i can

this is my life for now, this is the way that i can live and be my best self and it really upsets me when my own sisters cannot see that and also cannot see how grateful i am that i can live this way idk what they actually want from me, you know?

nb: i am not whining about my privilege btw, i just get upset that my own fam call me racial slurs and assume i am not aware of the privilege i have - why is living at home such a bad thing in western culture???

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