contradictory label culture is someone who claims to be supportive of lesboys and turigirls getting mad at me for identifying as enby but not trans cuz nonbinary is under the trans umbrella and im "betraying" the trans community 😭
like.... so you have no problem w lesbian men and vincian women but me being nonbinary w/out transness is suddenly an "attack" to trans people. maybe you just need to accept the fact that not all nonbinary or agender people relate to being trans and just see cis/trans as another binary. i dont care! i love being isogender nonbinary!!! everyone get less bigoted against contradictory labels now!!!!!
Ugh people always find an expectation to be mean to. I feel like this also comes from people treating labels like math. This is why I just say "well if I've seen people identify with ___ because they're ___" and "if they identify that way" instead of blunt yes's and no's.