#nonbinary contradictory labels

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"Isn't that just—" No actually check your ears ❤️

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Shout-out to the straight nonbinary people and straight people dating nonbinary people, very cool, very sick 🎉

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clc is being both aroace and alloace because attraction is a fuck

clc is being mlm in a straight way due to being trans

clc is being binary in a nonbinary way and nonbinary in a binary way

clc is not identifying as xenogender and using xenogenders anyway to describe your gender alignment, desired presentation, and the things that make you gender euphoric

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contradictory label culture is someone who claims to be supportive of lesboys and turigirls getting mad at me for identifying as enby but not trans cuz nonbinary is under the trans umbrella and im "betraying" the trans community 😭

like.... so you have no problem w lesbian men and vincian women but me being nonbinary w/out transness is suddenly an "attack" to trans people. maybe you just need to accept the fact that not all nonbinary or agender people relate to being trans and just see cis/trans as another binary. i dont care! i love being isogender nonbinary!!! everyone get less bigoted against contradictory labels now!!!!!

Ugh people always find an expectation to be mean to. I feel like this also comes from people treating labels like math. This is why I just say "well if I've seen people identify with ___ because they're ___" and "if they identify that way" instead of blunt yes's and no's.

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contradictory label culture is feeling like nonbinary/agender suits you but not identifying with it or else people will immediately label you as 'trans' or treat you as 'safer' and you dont want that

yes, im aware nonbinary is under the trans umbrella but its called NON binary for a reason right? and cis/trans is also a binary. to me at least. i need a label for enby/agender that is not under any umbrella cuz umbrella labels are really exhausting to me

Honestly I don't think Nonbinary is under the trans umbrella.....it isn't under an umbrella, it's just nonbinary. You can be trans nonbinary, you can be cis nonbinary, you can be Cistrans nonbinary, you can be iso, you can be no descriptors.

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contradictory label culture is feeling too non-binary to be binary but also too binary to be non-binary

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My gender constantly being denied by exclus 😭

I'm not a trans man because I'm nonbinary! I'm also not nonbinary because I'm a man,, how can I be a binary nonbinary?! Guess I'm a sandwich

Hate that people think trans man/woman = binary so much.

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People telling me that being a nonbinary-man doesn't count as a contradictory identity

Meanwhile I get told EVERY TIME that I have to be one or the other, that it doesn't make sense, that it's not real, that I'm making shit up, ect.

(And i feel like it mostly stems from people either seeing nonbinary as the 'neither' option or woman-lite, so me being a neither/woman-lite man doesn't make sense to them.)

God so real. Especially people treating you like you're not really nonbinary, like that's mostly what they say. At least for me, they never say you're not a real man, it's just that you're only a man.