Oct 16, 2025
James Tom
Gender: Transgender man (he/they)
Sexuality: Queer
DOB: Born 1990
Ethnicity: Japanese, Chinese
Nationality: American
Occupation: Comedian, actor, writer, screenwriter
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James Tom
Gender: Transgender man (he/they)
Sexuality: Queer
DOB: Born 1990
Ethnicity: Japanese, Chinese
Nationality: American
Occupation: Comedian, actor, writer, screenwriter
05/09-12/2025 Daily OFMD Recap
TLDR; Happy Belated Birthday Madeleine Sami and Damien Gerard!; David Jenkins; Rhys Darby; Taika Waititi; Nathan Foad; Samba Schutte; Kristian Nairn; Ruibo Qian; Dominic Burgess; James Tom; Nat Torres; Fan Spotlight: Never Left Podcast, Mermay 2025; Love Notes;
= Happy Belated Bday Madeleine Sami! =
Our beloved Archie's birthday was May 10 and she was in New York for it!
Source: Madeleine Sami's IG
= Happy Belated Bday Damien Gerard! =
May 10th was also our dear Father Teach's birthday! Happy belated birthday Damien!
Source: Damien's Twitter
= David Jenkins =
Chaos Dad sending some encouragement! (and letting us know it wasn't a coded message, lol, he knows us too well).
Source: David's Bsky
Our dear @temporal-discounting, Ruth was kind enough to share her beautiful ink, and David commented on the vibe!
Source: David's Bsky
= Rhys Darby =
Guess who's back from Australia for a much needed break!
And Rhys was home in time to play Risk with Rosie for Mother's Day!
Source: Rosie's IG stories
= Taika Waititi =
Oh you know, Taika just being Taika!
Source: Taika's IG Stories
= Nathan Foad =
Nathan's had a lot of things going on the last few days! A little hey hi hello.
And a sneak peak at one of his shorts -- Triplets Baby!
Source: Nathan's IG Stories
= Samba Schutte =
May 10th was Samba's Baking is Key Lime class! I had signed up but didn't get to go due to some family stuff-- I hope everyone had such an amazing time! Here's the recording if you missed it!
Source: Samba's IG
Samba also shared some lovely pictures of him, Aria, and their little one on the beach for mother's day, and a picture of his mom and him as a baby as well!
Source: Samba's IG
= Kristian Nairn =
Kristian sent everyone some good weekend vibes!
Source: Kristian's IG
= Ruibo Qian =
Ruibo still sending love: "🌕✨♾️❤️ ily"
Source: Ruibo's IG
= Dominic Burgess =
Our Jeffrey Fettering, Dominic Burgess is our doing some parts with Aubrey Reynolds!
Source: Dominic's IG
Also! Good news! One tooth Frodo got the cone off!
Source: Dominic's IG
= James Tom =
Our friends over at @adoptourcrew were out at James Tom's show and passed out some love <3
Source: James Tom's Bsky
James Tom also had a bit of fun with the new Name change with HBOMax!
Source: James Tom's Bsky
Speaking of, if you hadn't heard yet-- Max is going back to an old name-- HBO Max 🤦
Yes, the streamer is going back to its old ways.
= Fan Spotlight =
= Never Left Podcast =
New episode of Never Left! Check it out on spotify or your favorite podcast platform! Visit their Linktr.ee!
Source: Never Left Podcast Spotify
= Mermay 2025 =
Next up for Mermay on tonight's spotlight is @sailorsruin92 who is also participating in prompts from @bizarrelittlemew's OFMD Mermay Bingo! @sailorsruin92 always has such beautiful and fun visuals and perspectives, and these Mermay prompts are no different! Check out the gorgeous colors and shading on those tails! I'm in love! Wanna check out more of their work? Visit their socials below! Linktr.ee / Tumblr / IG / Ko-Fi / RedBubble The first prompt is for beach and technology!
Source: Sailor's Ruin's Tumblr
Next up is Puppy Kraken -- covering the prompts Underwater friends/pets and Kraken!
Source: Sailors Ruin's Tumblr
Another prompt this time, with Arthur the Seahorse for the prompt Underwater friends/pets!
Source: Sailor's Ruin's Tumblr
Lastly, check out this beautiful work for the prompts Treasure Map, Jewelry and Sparkles!
Source: Sailors Ruin's Tumblr
== Love Notes ==
Hey lovelies. I know that Mother's Day can be a mixed experience depending on your personal situation. If receiving a belated mother's day wish makes you happy-- then I am sending them your way-- if it's complicated, or hurtful, I'm sending hugs instead. You are wonderful, and perfect as you are no matter what.
Source: Positively Present's IG
Is This Thing On? (2025) Review
With their marriage unfolding Alex is facing middle age and divorce, wondering what to do next in his life he begins doing stand up comedy in New York City. While Tess his wife is confronting the sacrifices she makes for the family. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Continue reading Is This Thing On? (2025) Review
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04/18-21/2025 Daily OFMD Recap
TLDR; Happy Birthday Brian Gattas!; David Jenkins; Rhys Darby; Samson Kayo; Nathan Foad; Vico Ortiz; Anapela Polata'ivao; Nat Torres; James Tom; Erroll Shand; Minnie Driver; Articles; Call To Action: Kudoboards for Paramount and Ketchup; MerStede Muppet Raffle!; Love Notes;
April 19th was our dear Siegfried's birthday! Happy belated birthday! He had lots of love from friends and some lovely celebrations with Hornberry (Connor Barrett!)
Source: Brian's IG
= David Jenkins =
Absolutely love that Chaos Dad David commented on one of our beloved crewmates @mrbuttons284266 posts on Bsky about Rory Kinnear! Rory deserves all the accolades! He's amazing!
Source: David's Bsky
= Rhys Darby =
Rhys's The Legend Returns tour is going well! He's been flying all over the world and sending us thirst shots!
Source: Rhys's IG Stories
Source: Rhys's IG Stories
= Samson Kayo =
I didn't see the context of this photo but Samson shared this on his IG Stories!
Source: Samson's IG Stories
= Nathan Foad =
Nathan reshared one of his classic videos this Easter!
Source: Nathan's IG
Our friend @hotdiggitydollie made this adorable video of Fabric Nathan Bunny, and Nathan shared it on his IG Stories! Unfortunately I didn't capture his message about it, if anyone happened to download it, please let me know!
Source: FabricFandom's IG
= Vico Ortiz =
Vico's been very busy! Vico will be premiering their first solo show in NYC on May 23-25! Get tickets here!
Source: Vico's Bsky
They've also been keeping busy posting more BTS on their paid Patreon! Below are some sneak previews and the links to them!
Source: Vico's Paid Patreon
Source: Vico's Paid Patreon
Source: Vico's Paid Patreon
= Anapela Polataivao =
Tinā will be premiering in Australia on May 1st! The Jam Report did a review here!
Source: TheJam Report
= Nat Torres =
A rare sighting of one of our dear writer Nat Torres!
Source: Nat's IG
= James Tom =
The writers are out in droves! Are you in LA, SF , PDX or Seattle between May 2-9? Why not go out and see James Tom's new show! Get tickets on linktr.ee/jamestomxo
Source: James Tom's Bluesky
= Erroll Shand =
Our Prince Ricky has been busy lately! He's doing some voice work for an upcoming horror movie - MĀRAMA!
Source: Toastappard's IG
Erroll was also out with the NZ Horse Team doing some film work!
Source: Erroll's IG Stories
= Minnie Driver =
Our Anne Bonny, Minnie Driver was getting in the Easter spirit!
Source: Minnie's IG Stories
== Articles ==
Thank you to @savequeerstories and @adoptourcrew for keeping us up to date on Articles covering OFMD!
One thing about me is that I will — literally — never shut up about "The Society" getting cancelled.
SourcE: SaveQueerStories Bsky
== Kudoboards for Paramount and Ketchup ==
Some action items crew! Wanna help revive some renewal efforts? Please take a moment to fill out some Kudoboards! Paramount is going to be sent off May 1, and Ketchup will be sent off June 5!
Paramount: https://www.kudoboard.com/boards/WDOgZaYU
Ketchup: https://www.kudoboard.com/boards/xokqrEgy
Source: Petrichor (Ghey and Woke)'s Bsky
= Win Muppet MerStede! =
Wanna win on of @amuseoffyre's amazing muppets? You can enter into a raffle for MerStede until April 30th!
To enter, donate at least £5 to any of the following charities: Equality Network – supporting LGBTI rights in Scotland - https://www.equality-network.org/support-us/
Mermaids – supporting trans/NB kids and their families – https://mermaidsuk.org.uk/
GALOP – supporting trans and queer folk who have experienced violence - https://galop.org.uk/
For every £5 donated, you get a single ticket in the raffle, so the higher the donation, the more raffle entries you get 😊
Source: AMuseOfFyre's IG
== Love Notes ==
Hey Lovelies. I'm trying to catch up so just some love notes from others tonight. I'm thinking of you, I miss you, I hope you're all staying safe out there. Be kind to yourself okay? <3
Source: TheLatestKate
Source: PositivelyPresent IG
03/17-20/2025 Daily OFMD Recap
TLDR; Rhys Darby; Kristian Nairn; Zayre Ferrer; Vico Ortiz; Jes Tom; Bronson Pinchot; Dominic Burgess; Nicola Dove; The New Uni-Con; Our Drag Means Slay; Love Notes;
= Rhys Darby =
Rhys' Tour is in full swing in Aotearoa and he's been featured in lots of articles and participating in Podcast and Radio Shows all over!
But it’s where he’ll be kicking off his international standup tour The Legend Returns, in March 2025. It’s a joyful return and a milestone a
Source: Beat Magazine
One of the podcasts he was on recently was Wilosophy! You can listen below, but there's also some clips on IG! Our friends over at @adoptourcrew also put up some clips on their Bluesky as well!
Source: Wilosophy
Source: Rhys's IG
Tired of Rhys yet? ME NEITHER! It's like a gift every day! There's also a New Cryptid Factor Episode! #105 The Robot Host Issue!
Source: The Cryptid Factor - Paid Patreon
= Kristian Nairn =
Kristian just sending some love and hinting at some Spektrum updates!
Source: Kristian's IG
= Zayre Ferrer =
One of our fabulous writers, Zayre Ferrer is looking for "Los Angeles locals of all genders who identify as Afro-Caribeños, Hispanos & Latinos in their early 20s to 50s for various lead and supporting roles! Check out the casting info below!
Please email [email protected] for more information."
Buscando talento Afro-Caribeño, Hispano y Latino residente en Los Angeles, de todos géneros entre 20 y 50 años, para papeles principales y secundarios. Para participar, obtener más información o si tiene preguntas envié un correo electrónico a [email protected].
Source: Zayre's IG
= Vico Ortiz =
Vico's been very busy with Today in Gay and other projects!
Source: Vico's Bluesky
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Source: Today In Gay Substack
Vico's also been keeping us fed with more BTS on their paid Patreon! Here's a couple previews!
Source: Vico's Paid Patreon
Source: Vico's Paid Patreon
= James Tom =
Gonna be in San Francisco on May 6th? Why not stop in and see James Tom, one of our dear writers for their stand up! Get tickets here!
Source: James Tom's IG
= Bronson Pinchot =
Bronson, our villainous Ned Low, was out at "The Residence" Red carpet event with Netflix! I ran out of space for videos on this post, but Bronson also posted a video of him and his pup you should go watch here on IG for some serotonin!
Source: Bronson's IG
= Dominic Burgess =
Our dear Jeffrey Fettering, Dominic, is going to be in Hulu's GOOD AMERICAN FAMILY! Here's a clip!
Source: Dominics Bsky
As a bonus, Dominic is thinking of us and sending us kitty love <3
Source: Dominic's Bsky
= Nicola Dove =
More wonderful BTS photos and memories from one of our S2 Photographers-- Nicola Dove! These feature both before and after shots of specific scenes.
Source: FilmstillsAcademy IG
"Don't get too close to Rhys Darby with a sword. 😉 Behind the scenes on Our Flag Means Death S2"
Source: FilmStillsAcademy IG
== The New Uni-Con ==
Guess who's joining The New Uni-Con in London June 20th - 22nd? Why it's none other than, "Mr. Cool", Nathan Foad! Why is it I don't live in the UK again?
Source: Siren UK Events
== Our Drag Means Slay ==
My sincerest apologies to the Our Drag Means Slay folks, I've been so behind on these I'm not sure there's enough time to still send raffle prizes you'd like to donate-- but if so-- they're still accepting raffle prizes for their April 12 show in Chicago! They need them in hand by 04/10! All proceeds from the raffle, and part of the ticket sales go to The Lighthouse Foundation!
Source: Our Drag Means Slay IG
== Articles ==
As always, thank you to our amazing crewmates over at @adoptourcrew for keeping us up to date on articles featuring our favorite show!
Telltale-tv: The 15 Best Will They - Won't They TV Relationships
Source: Adopt Our Crew's Bsky
Max's #4 most-watched show is The Righteous Gemstones – here are 3 more great comedies with over 90% on Rotten Tomatoes
Source: Adopt Our Crew Bsky
More of the OFMD Craft Fair featured on INTO!
Our Flag Means Death creator donates to a craft fair raising funds for trans youth - INTO
Doing the work!
Source: Intomore.com's Bsky
== Love Notes ==
Just a couple love notes for you lovelies. Please remember that you're doing the best you can, and you're going to get wherever you want to go one day <3
Love you crew <3
Source: Anxiety Positive IG
Source: Anxiety Positive IG
== Daily Darby / Today's Taika ==
Been a while since we've had some silly gifs! Tonight's gifs are courtesy of the lovely and talented @fandomsmeantheworldtome and @soapbubbles511 <3
Show on tonight at The Post Office Hotel in Coburg. Free!
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New mix as a farewell of nostalgia, hope for the future, sadness and meditation on precious memories. For those who love to love.
Dylan and myself after solo show at Dane’s Magic Certificate two weeks ago supporting Council of Elders for their May residency.