100 hal yang aku pelajari di 2024
1. Nggak ada orang lain yang lebih penting dalam hidup seseorang kecuali dirinya sendiri. Berhenti merasa spesial.
2. Berhenti berteman dengan seseorang yang menganggapmu saingan, bukan seseorang yang bersedia untuk diajak tumbuh dan berkembang bersama-sama.
3. Tidak ada seorang pun yang bertanggungjawab untuk membahagiakan dan memperjuangkan hidupmu selain dirimu sendiri. Semua orang sibuk dengan hidupnya masing-masing.
4. Mengubah hidup terkadang sesederhana mengubah pola pikir.
5. Satu-satunya waktu yang kita punya adalah saat ini. Later or tomorrow isn't a promise.
6. Everything takes time. So be patient for what we have been trying and wishing for.
7. Kebanyakan orang seringkali hanya ingin mendengar apa yang mereka percayai, bukan apa yang sebenarnya terjadi.
8. Tidak perlu menjelaskan sesuatu. Orang-orang yang mengerti tidak membutuhkannya, dan orang-orang yang membenci tidak akan mendengarkannya.
9. Hidup tidak akan berubah kalau bukan diri sendiri yang memulai untuk mengubahnya.
10. You vs you. Not others.
11. You deserve better.
12. Tidak ada kezaliman dalam takdir Allah bila kita beriman.
13. Sesungguhnya Allah Maha Baik dan cuman bisa berbuat baik. Jaga terus prasangka baik kita kepada-Nya.
14. Done is better than perfect.
15. Nobody can understand me better than Allah and myself.
16. Reality is what happens. Not what i think will happen.
17. Dream isn't what I'm thinking of, but what i create, build, and fight for.
18. if i don't wake up to pray qiyam, then i don't want it enough.
19. In order to make people understand i have to talk
20. My family needs 'thanks, ask, and sorry' from me too.
21. There's no benefit for anyone to know what i have done or what my kindness is.
22. Less is more.
23. World doesn't end just because i miss some people, made mistakes, or haven't learn something yet.
24. What's for me never miss me, and what's not for me always finding ways to go.
25. Not everyone has the same heart as mine, nor think the way i think and that's okay.
26. If they wanted they would. I don't want to force anything anymore.
27. Two things I'll never forget: how someone treats me and what they made me feel.
28. Not everyone matters.
29. I will never accept any disrespect.
30. My peace over anything.
31. Time will pass anyway
32. If it’s the right time everything will be easier
33. Life keeps going with or without the people i think would stay
34. Everyone makes mistakes. Me either
35. Just because it's taking time, doesn't mean it's not happening
36. If they think they can find better, let them
37. People changes. Me either
38. Small progress is still progress
39. I don't need to understand everything
40. Growth requires discomfort
41. Im not what i thought
42. If i didn't different then nothing changes different too
43. My current self vs My old self. Don't compare myself with others cause it's not relevant
44. To be friends with me is to be privilege. And not all people have that privilege.
45. Maybe, it's a journey to finding myself, not finding a love
46. Sometimes i need to walk alone to truly find myself
47. Nobody's perfect
48. Forgive myself for not knowing what i didn't know before learning it
49. The wrong ones have to leave to make space for the right ones.
50. My new life will cost my old one
51. If it's possible for others, it's possible for me too
52. My past was a lesson, not a life sentence. Never be a prisoner
53. If i prayed for flowers don't be surprised if it starts rain
54. The way they treat me defines them. Not me
56. It has to fall apart temporarily before it falls into place permanently
58. Having boundaries is the way to have self-respect
59. The distance between my dreams and my reality is action
60. I'm much more learn from my mistakes not from theory
61. Some people won't stay
62. Words have a big power
63. It doesn't matter how good you explain yourself to others if Allah already knows how you are
64. Satu-satunya cara untuk mengetahui kita bisa apa enggak adalah dengan menjalaninya bukan dengan menebak-nebak
65. Ketakutan lahir dari ketidaktahuan dan tidak adanya persiapan
66. Jangan jadi menjadi obat bagi orang yang tidak mau sembuh
67. Terkadang, satu-satunya cara untuk bertahan adalah dengan meninggalkan
68. Tidak ada yang salah dengan menjadi lebih egois demi ketenangan dan kebahagiaan diri sendiri
69. Terkadang, respon terbaik adalah dengan tidak memberi respon
70. Menolong orang lain sama dengan menolong diri sendiri
71. My standards are never too high enough
72. I don't have to take the responsibility of everything
73. Some things are out of my control
74. I did all that i could
75. Cringe means growth too.
76. I'm stronger than i thought
78. I'm what i think
79. Love is real, because i exist
80. I deserve better
81. People are so lucky to know me
82. Never hate on previous of myself
83. I have nothing but hope
84. Be patience. Good things are coming
85. If someone isn't for me, Allah will never let me at peace with them
89. I was fine before them, i will fine after them too
90. Everything happens for a reason
91. Focus on improving not proving
92. Work in silence then let the success speak
93. Being nice doesn't mean making myself small for other people's comfort
94. Hard choice = easy life
Easy choice = hard life
95. Choose myself first before others
96. Sometimes being more heartless makes life get easier
97. Someone out there feels so grateful of meeting me
98. Wanting a sign, is a sign too.
99. I can always be a better version of my current self.
100. Look at people's actions. Not their words.
