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Denim scarf (jarf)

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Now, Now - SGL - Live from Lincoln Hall

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[iam-the-eggman]

do you ever try to sleep but just get consumed by rage for

racism

microaggressions

people who claim to not be racist but really are

people who claim not to be racist but then are racist towards you

hypocrites

privileged arrogant self involved deluded mostly (ignorant) white high schools that are full of faculty, staff, and students who make aware people of color feel more and more uncomfortable and marginalized every day and then im really thankful for the gem's who are my friends that i found there who will listen to me and care about educating themselves because it means a lot to me, its beneficial to them, and beneficial to the human race.

[iam-the-eggman]

when i argue about stuff in person, verbally, face to face, about stuff that gets heated and that i am emotionally invested in, i spew out garbage.

all the things i want to say dont get said, or get said in the wrong way, or i say things i dont mean but say in the heat of the moment, and i just end up an angry shaking mess because i am just that bad at verbal communication.

i find that the best way i can convey myself as best as possible without any verbiage, is through text. 

through text, i can see everything that is being said, edit it so that things will most likely not be misinterpreted, i can cite back to what was said and if i was in the wrong or where there was a misinterpretations. i can make sure everything i want to be said was said and in a way that makes the most sense, and i can formulate sentences in a coherent manner because there is a visual trail of what was said and how, so i can build off of that. 

[iam-the-eggman]

Why it's wrong to have, "date a *insert ethnicity* person before I die" goal

i have no scientific sources but these are my opinions and as a person of physical ethnicity but american/white mentality, i think i have a better perspective than you (not you general reader, but the person i write this to specifically)

Dear guy, its wrong to want to date a girl of a certain ethnicity for a number of reasons (i couldnt really think of them at the time cause i was kinda put on the spot and im bad at thinking fast and tend to go with the flow and then think over what happened later)

she is not defined by her ethnicity. as one of my friends once said, we are all the human race, we have different ethnicities. as such, she is a person first, not an object, not her ethnicity. you are wrong if you think dating a poc (person of color) will be different or exciting or fun more than a white girl. shes a person, treat her with respect, she is not something to be objectified, judged, and chained by preconceived notions you may have about her. from personal experience, i cant really talk for all women of color, but she has enough shit and difficulties that she has to deal with throughout the rest of her life without you dating her simply for her skin color. it is one thing if your preference is colored women. its is another if you are just treating her like a object or accomplishment to check off on a list. 

but hey, some girls may not mind, but as a woman of color myself i would hate it if i was approached by someone for just my ethnicity. there are so many more redeeming qualities that i like to believe i have and define me more than the color of my skin.

she is a person before she is anything else let alone her ethnicity. you are setting up her and yourself for misery by treating her as anything other than a person with a mind and feelings and insecurities. 

[iam-the-eggman]

i wish i spent more time writing my paper than making puns about how much i did not want to write it. 

[malunk]

How many miles would you walk to be the man to to walk x amount of miles to fall down at my door? #notvee5 #anon #nonny #Massachusetts #bonspeillivetweet

if this is aidan or jarf the answer is 0