“Neurologically, porn trains a man's brain to associate sexual joy with trashy forbidden fantasies. No wife can compete with this, because marriage requires respect and reverence, not to mention monogamy. But even if a bride did try to conform to such a warped image of womanhood to win his interests, the victory would be short-lived. Remember, such a man hops from web site to web site. He grows bored of each supermodel within a matter of seconds! He has destroyed his ability to be captivated. Instead of sexually liberating a guy, pornography enslaves him.
Such a man has warped his capacity to love because he has trained himself in selfishness and lust. Instead of making love within marriage, such a man will see his wife as an outlet for what he thinks are his sexual needs. Because he lacks the self-control that makes love possible, he is unable to make a gift of himself to her.”
-Jason and Crystalina Evert, How to Find Your Soulmate Without Losing Your Soul
