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1 of 2 (Tag jb99) *Time Sensitive* I've dated this guy off and on for a year and a half now. We dated for a while, and I didn't really feel like it was working out. So I broke it off. A couple months passed and I found myself missing him. So we got back together. And since then I've gone back and forth. Sometimes I feel completely satisfied with the relationship. Others I feel overwhelmingly disappointed with it. Lately I've felt I'm falling out of love with him again. He noticed the difference-
(1 of 3 tag jb99) -difference in me and texted me asking about it two days ago. I still haven’t answered, and I feel terrible, but I don’t know what to say. I’d been thinking for a while it may be time to end things, but given an opportunity I suddenly feel worried. What if I find myself missing him again? I can’t tell if I’m in love with him, or just need to be with someone to feel secure. Should I just hold on and try to improve things, or just let him go? I know you get a tone of asks and I-
(3 of 3 tag jb99) I hate marking mine important, but I need to answer him before the day’s over and I really need to hear some advice first. I’ve been trying to find some for two days and no has responded on any of the sites I’ve tried. I think I really screwed up the numbering on these but I have 3 parts and I’ve marked them all with the tag jb99. *Time Sensitive*
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Hey dear,
To be honest, I think you should just break it off. How long do you give yourself in the relationship before calling it off and how long do you wait before getting back together? It’s not uncommon for you to miss an ex no matter how unsatisfying the relationship was. You had a life with another person and then to suddenly be alone, it’s going to make everyone a little lonely. However, if you allow yourself to give in after that initial period, you may never truly know if you really missed him or you just missed having someone. I would suggest calling it off and wait for at least a month or two before getting back together or even think about getting back together. Find yourself. Find who you are and maybe you can fall in love with your new selves.
I don’t think it’s unusual for people to fall out of love with their partner after the initial passion has faded away. It’s like a fire. Eventually the fire will burn out and you will have to continue to rekindle it by doing something new, something different. So take this break. If you really really miss him after two months, then get back together but talk about it first. Talk about the reason why you always want to break up. Maybe you got bored with the relationship. Or maybe you don’t have as much in common or have anything new to explore with each other after a while. Whatever it is, talk about it and get to know each other again.
In the months that you’re apart, try to find yourselves again. Go for a hike. Make new friends. Take up new hobbies. Find more things that you like and better yourself for your own sake. Find your own individuality and find a way to maintain it in a relationship. You may find that after that first few weeks you don’t miss him anymore or have a desire to get back together. This can also give you a chance to get to know each other as new individuals and not someone who have become so comfortable with each other that you don’t get surprised about things anymore.
You deserve more than something that’s mundane and he deserves more than an unsure relationship. Allow yourselves to find your own interests rather than forcing something to work that wasn’t meant to be. If you want to get back together after two months, then maybe give it another try, but don’t give in to that initial feeling of loneliness and fall into the same pattern.
I hope this helps, love.
Always by your side,
Kelly
