#jestingly posting

[jester-shapeshifter]

If when I ask you what your pronouns are, you're genuinely confused and answer me man/woman, I'll check up like "so she/so he, right?" and it will end there.

However, if you are being a piece of shit about it, be sure your dumbass response will be your new pronouns (as a neopronoun user) ❤️

Also, all these answers where taken from a post asking fellow radfems what their answers were.

"I'm obviously a woman" "Woman/womans pronouns? Haven't seen anyone use these yet, how original!"

"I'm a cat" (no hate to therians, am one myself and animal themed pronouns are awesome /g) -> "Omgs cat did such a great thing the other night!"

"What are pronouns?" Did you want a grammar lesson? Cause I'm about to give you one ^^

"Any" -> I'll use any from the "basic" ones (they/she/he/it), in case you genuinely don't care, and if you do and are trying to be an ass it'll piss you off anyways

"I use sex-based pronouns" -> "Sex was at the club yesterday. Sex left sexes purse at my house."

"Oh just the normal ones" -> I resort to they/them unless people tell me their pronouns, so to me these are the normal ones

"I'm a female/I have a vagina" "I didn't ask what's in your pants, I don't want to have sex with you..."

"You can't tell that you're speaking to a woman?" "I certainely couldn't tell I was speaking to a Karen" / "And you couldn't tell you were speaking to a decent/polite human?" (If the setting is pro I'll smile politely, not answer, and use they/them)

"I’m not into that thing" "What thing? Polite questions?"

"Whatever they're calling normal women these days" "So their preffered pronouns?"

"What do you think? And why do you ask?" "I don't guess pronouns because assuming things about people is often shitty, and I ask because I'm a polite person"

"I'm a TERF! Cheers!" I'm leaving the function, blocking anyone who thinks being a terf is okay, and certainly getting that person out of my life. Proudly being a terf is stupid.

[jester-shapeshifter]

Discovered that terfs call people who don't think like them about gender "gendies" and I kind of want to steal it- Like it's such a cute term??

[jester-shapeshifter]

Comme quoi, some people just don't wanna try to be accepting and look into things, they'd rather just be hateful (doesn't look great for them or their community/the ideas they're defending)

When that happens I let it be, I don't have energy to waste on people who genuinely want to stay hateful 🤷

[jester-shapeshifter]

Yoinked this because they disabled their replies, so clearly me saying my opinion wasn't welcome on the og post /g /info

How though? Trans people aren't considered "normal" by the people you're (as in op and others who think like them) catering to yk? When you invite the face-eating leopard to eat xeno & neo users, whose face do you think they're gonna eat after they're done? Yours! They see no difference between us and you guys.

[jester-shapeshifter]

OMG I got a gem tonight

So I'm in the agere tags and I find this post of someone complaining that people are baby talking online. I genuinely ask why this is a problem, and it's like "didn't want your opinion" then blocks me. Fine tbh, but THEN!!! I get a DM of, you guessed it, unsollicited advice! "Didn't ask for your opinion" not only was it just a question, but also I didn't want your advice sweetie 💝

Here's the DM sent just before I got blocked, like it blocked me seconds after this XD

And yes, it was right: I'm having a laugh rn! Thanks for making my night ✨

Edit: corrected its pronouns as it asked /g

[jester-shapeshifter]

Found this really nice visual depiction of privilege!

[jester-shapeshifter]

I'm seeing this legal argument a lot and it's tiring me.

Do antis know laws are different in different areas of the world, right? It's almost like they forget there's a world outside of the USA!

Not saying where I live, but I can tell you it's not in the USA, and as long as it's not realistic it's fine where I live 🤷‍♀️

Additionally, maws aren't the end all be all of morality, otherwise they'd be the same everywhere, don't you think? /g

[jester-shapeshifter]

I see this argument a lot, not only for profiction but for being punk, doing activism, partying, etc; so I thought I'd post my thoughts about it!

Bold of you to think it's in any way possible to link my online presence to my IRL identity: I've been raised in a very "don't divulge anything personal about your real life online" household, the only thing you'd have to go off is my chrono age, which... Good luck ig!

There's a few reasons for this:

Safety, avoiding doxxing.

It's nobody's business in my IRL life what I do online in my own time.

It's nobody's business online what I do in my real life.

Employers can go fuck themselves if they think they're entitled to my personal spaces.