@spaceviking Here's the ask meme with John/Scott and Hayden/Raimi!
3. Who kisses the inside of their partner’s palm before reassuring them everything is going to be okay?
Raimi/Hayden : They both do it, really. In a post-movie setting, they both have PTSD to deal with too, and they both learn to support and rely on each other a lot when they're having bad days. Hayden in particular can get super jumpy when if someone touches her (what happened with Jack absolutle has something to do with it), and though she does like to be held when she's having a bad time sometimes it's best for Raimi to initiate physical contact with a smaller gesture like this first.
John/Scott : Definitely John. He's more likely to try and comfort Scott with gestures like this, and considering Scott's generally anxious nature... The help is usually appreciated. He's also way less likely to ask for help or comfort (or even to show that he might need it) when something's wrong, so Scott won't always offer support even when it's needed.
9. How do they hold each other when their partner asks to be held?
Raimi/Hayden: They might pretty much be the same height, but it doesn't matter: Hayden is always going to cuddle and make herself as tiny as possible when Raimi hugs her. It just feels nice! Raimi will almost always end up running a hand through her hair too, which she always finds super soothing.
John/Scott: Scott being so stupidly tall is annoying here, and John /wishes/ he could be taller sometimes because when they hug it's like... Scott clearly wants to be held, but he's too tall and his limbs are too long and /ugh/ being short is stupid?? Scott never particularly seems to mind though (John is perfectly right to assume that Scott would let him know if that were the case. There are few things Scott won't loudly complain about if given the opportunity.)! He loves when John holds him. Scott is... kinda bad at hugs? He always feels a bit awkward and tense even when he isn't, and it's like he tries to compensate by being clingy and holding John just a bit too tight instead. John doesn't really mind though... he likes Scott's shitty hugs, especially since this is the kind of affectionate touch they didn't have much of in the relationship for awhile? These twos are just bad at showing affection...
12. Who falls asleep on who? What is their reaction when the other falls sleep on them?
Raimi/Hayden: Raimi is usually the one who falls asleep first... and at times he will just cuddle closer and close his eyes anyway because it feels nice? Hayden can tell when he's faking, but either way she loves when he falls asleep against her. His breathing is relaxing to her, and it usually helps her falls asleep too. She'll usually react by resting her head against his shoulder and holding his hand :D
John/Scott : this one 100% depends on what time it is! In the evening, Scott is ALWAYS the first one to crash, and John genuinely thinks it's kind of adorable. He just kinda pulls Scott a bit closer and lets him rest his head, and it's during those nice, quiet moments that he's the happiest! During morning, John is much, much more likely to fall asleep and take a nap if there's nothing to keep him awake. Scott is somehow always a bit surprised when it happens, because it's super rare for him to sleep during the day! He's a bit annoyed, but if we're talking about a setting where they're in an established relationship, he'll usually let John sleep. He gets up super carefully, throws a blanket over him and goes to another room to keep working or whatever.