#junk!anon

[meisjunk]

I think I live in an abusive household and I don't know what to do I just want to leave I feel like shit here. I just don't know how to save myself for once. I want to leave. I want to be gone so bad and I can't.

I just want to first say that it was brave for you to reach out. <3 Thanks for trusting me with this.

I’m sorry to hear about your household. =/ Being stuck in an abusive one literally can be the worst thing. It’s mentally debilitating and exhausting, physically exhausting and depending on the circumstances actually dangerous to your physical health and life. The fact that you’re here and reaching out, and alive to do so is a huge feat, and I’m proud of you. <3

I don’t know what your situation is, and of course I would love to believe that everyone could out of their abusive situations. Unfortunately, I know that not all of us have the resources. =/ I don’t know how old you are or if you’re still in school, but do you have anyone to reach out to in your life that might be able to report what’s going on and help get you out of there?

If you’re of age, do you know of another family member who might let you stay with them until you get on your feet? I’ll be thinking of you. <3 <3 <3  Please keep me updated on how you’re doing.

[meisjunk]

I'm not trying to be confrontational and I'm not even that partial to Jennifer Lawrence but I wanted to say that I didn't expect something that felt so full of hate on your blog. You are one of my favorites and I don't expect you to be perfect or to always agree with me. I'm just curious as to why you wanted to reblog that post, I guess.

Because I’ve always felt disdain for her. She has privilege in abundance, and she’s happily ignorant to it, as if she on purpose refuses to learn about it. and yet she calls herself a feminist? She doesn’t understand the word, and yet she’s adored for it and for her “quirky lol just awkward self” while others like Kristen Stewart were hated and even given death threats for it. She can stay happily ignorant, but I won’t pretend to like her.

[meisjunk]

MOTHER HELLO MOTHER HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!!! I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!! <333333

Thank youuuuu! ^_^ 

[meisjunk]

Helo mother i am officially home and done for today i did all the things i needed to do day one and i sorta already know what i need to do day 2 so i am good for now :> thanks for letting me message you its v nice and chill u kno!! thanks mother ❤️❤️

Aww that’s so great! I’m so proud of you for making it through your first day! And you even already have an idea about what the second day will look like! That’s not so scary at all!

You’re welcome! You can message me any time about anything. <33333

[meisjunk]

hello mother!! small update i am going to school tomorrow and i have everything ready i'll message u again tomorrow to tell u how it goes :>

WOOOOOOO YOU ARE GOING TO BE SO READY. DO YOU HAVE A LIT OF WHAT TO TAKE/PACK? WHAT TO GET WHEN YOU GET THERE? KEEP ME POSTED! I LOVE YOU!

[meisjunk]

psst mother i used to unofficially foster cats back home (unofficially bc there isnt an established shelter system) so like i've bottle raised kitties done antiparasite treatments baths etc. this time its "official" fostering bc i'm doing it w an organization but thank u again mother :>

oh wow that’s so great!! ^_^ Awwww I think my heart just expanded again for you. =3 You are doing so great, my child! I love you so much! 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

[meisjunk]

!! thank u again mother i will think about it some more. atm i'm living w my mother and like i can always move into the dorms later (i've asked.) plus i'm looking into fostering pets and i can't do that in the dorm but yea thanks!!

Welcome! ^_^ 

Also make sure that you actually know what you’re getting into when you foster pets! I do that, and it means bringing cat illnesses into your home that you will need to pay for to get them better, and it means flea stuff that costs money, and vet visits that cost money, and the time and patience to work with the pets to get them to the point of being ready for a home. You really need to make sure that you have all of that to give them. I had thought about it for years before actually getting into it, and I’ve now spent almost $200 in the past two months just on meds for my cat because the two kittens I brought home gave him every illness out there, plus the added food and litter costs, plus the vet visits, and the time and energy. I had been thinking about it for YEARS before getting into it, and I thought I had it all planned and thought out and was ready for anything, and I wasn’t. xD I had a lot of surprises. So please make sure that you’re able to give pets EVERYTHING they need before you take that on!

[meisjunk]

!!!!!!! thank you so much mother !!!!!!! oh my god literally tearing up here thanks for the advice i'll do the list thing thank you and i'll write again on monday to let you know how things went ok but thank you thank you so much

💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜  You’re welcome, my lovely child! I can’t wait to hear how Monday went! Make sure you include any good details and any bad details just in case! And also any sideways things that we’re not yet sure are good or bad! XD I love you! I’ll miss you while you’re at school! Make good choices!!!! 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜