The switch up after a man no longer fucks with you romantically/sexually is literally insane.
Like damn I thought we were at least friends, but clearly that was just to try to fuck me/get my nudes/whatever.
Most of the time it doesn’t bother me, I feel like when someone shows me that I’m not for them, I’m much more accepting of that than I used to be. But I think it’s human nature to wanna be loved, genuinely cared about, and accepted. So there’s something really sad about the realization that the only reason you’re feeling those things with a person is because they just wanted to see you naked 🙃
And this is why I made the commitment that I did about sex this year. I do not want to fuck just to fuck.
Don’t promise me one thing and then completely rip it from me without a real explanation and act like it’s no big deal.