#kayatalks

[ikkaya]

This one's for butches with disabilities, with health complications.

Needing time to rest is not weakness.

Letting yourself be taken care of by your partner doesn't make you a failure, nor weak.

Breaking down is normal. Crying is okay. Being vulnerable allows you to heal.

Not every day is going to be a good day, but this too shall pass.

Remember that allowing for others to take care of you is a way of caring for them, too. It's painful to see a loved one in pain push themselves past their limit. Allow yourself to rest in their hands when your own strength fails. Allow them to be there for you the way you're there for them.

[ikkaya]

This is a sign to send your partner cute sleepy audios and filthy moaning audios

[ikkaya]

Spent all my afternoon thinking about sitting in bed with my back facing the mirror, my beautiful femme ( @pistabarfiii ) on my lap as I tangle my right hand on her hair, making her face it as she rides me.

Only being able to see the way we move, the way she keeps rising and dropping herself on my lap, half covered by my back. The way my head tilts to the side, towards her neck, as I leave open mouth kisses to it, hickeys. Only being able to see the way her face gives her away when she's starting to get close, how her eyes flutter when I murmur to her ear how good she's taking my cock, when I ask her to tell me how we look in the mirror, to use her words for me.

[ikkaya]

Getting home after work, exhausted and frustrated and so pent up and finding her laying face down on the couch, draping yourself over her and start grinding your bulge against her ass while you mouth her neck and whisper how much you've missed her through the day, how much you need her, how good she makes you feel

[ikkaya]

The wish to degrade her when she needs it versus the need to remind her how fucking good she is for you and how breathtaking you find her

[ikkaya]

One thing I love about being so damn whipped for her is that even if we're in our own spaces, domming and subbing, is that she's still the one in control.

Anything we say to each other goes, anything any of us wants, we make happen, just with different approaches.

Love hearing her try and talk and form her own words through getting pounded to tell me what she wants, and most of all, I love to give it all to her.

[ikkaya]

They weren't kidding, that hot, evil, freaky femme will save you

[ikkaya]

Getting home after having been out for most of the day and declare for it to be a tits out evening. Pants can stay if necessary but the shirt and bra??? Out of the window if I didn't need them the day after