Kaadhal Enbadhu Podhu Udamai (KEPU)
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In the Indian Queer Media series, we have previously discussed a coming home narrative in Little Hearts. Coming home is different from the Western model of coming out, where one reveals queerness as part of one’s identity. In the Indian context, coming home involves bringing home or coming home with one’s significant other(s) and introducing them to the family and seeking familial endorsement for the relationship. On the content of India, monogamous heterosexuality itself is not the norm culturally. Instead, it is endogamous unions where one marries within one’s caste as well as class, with the right amount of astrological compatibility (if it applies) that a heterosexual union finds itself readily endorsed. Therefore, it is not only queer folks who have to come home / bring home but also all broadly socially queer (non-normative) couples including inter-caste and inter-religious couples. Since the outcome of bringing home can’t be ascertained, it is normal for couples to seek out enablers: friends, siblings, cool elders, etc., to be there for them and to help them negotiate.
That’s the backdrop of the movie. The main narrative showcases the events of the day when Sam brings home Nandhini, her girlfriend, for lunch with Sam’s mother Lakshmi. The home turf in this case is enlightened enough to entertain the idea in the first place, Sam’s mother refuses to learn anything about her daughter’s beloved who is assumed to a man, robbing Sam off the chance to reveal much. By holding off the reveal until the lunch progresses, the movie explores the heterosexist assumptions and the shocking contrast in reaction when all the lies evaporate, making way for an ugly confrontation.
What could have been a simplistic plot of will Lakshmi accept her daughter’s beloved or not and if yes, how is complicated by the skeletons in the closet. As the conflict simmers, it’s time for airing of a lot of dirty laundry that hides underneath the seemingly amicable divorce that separated Sam’s parents.
The most tender and adorable part of the movie is the couple themselves and their romance - their love story starting from a serendipitous encounter, Sam’s sneaky pursuit that mirrors that of many a hero in Tamil movies and them wearing matching toe rings. I wonder why they wear the toe-ring on the middle toe instead of the one next to the thumb toe. The answer I assume lies in the darkness of Nandhini’s past marriage. [Many married Hindu women wear matching toe-rings on 2nd toe that symbolize married status.]
The movie is dramatic to an extent that some might find it off-putting. Also, Sam’s friend Ravindra is not a flawless ally, and his conversation with Sam’s father reveals a "not in my backyard" (pun intended) attitude. The movie does not end with unconditional acceptance from both parents; instead, it ends on conditionalities and a negotiation that is not the best outcome, yet is very hope-inspiring.
The movie slowly explores aspects of the queer relationship and associated social anxieties in a FAQ style conversation that does not assume its audience to be well-versed in matters relating to queer folks and their lifestyle. In a way, it becomes a go to resource for any one, especially Tamil folks, to sensitize those near and dear to them and to be a conversation starter for more complex exploration of queerness or a segway into discussion on rights of sexual minorities, as Tamil Nadu is poised to be one of the first states in India to achieve major leaps in queer rights including a respectable vocabulary and possibly legal recognition of families that are not just based in heterosexual unions through Deed of Familial Association.
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