#kiley talks

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positivity for:

all the genderfluid people who are girls/adjacent today

all the genderfluid people who are boys/adjacent today

all the genderfluid people who are nonbinary/adjacent today

all the genderfluid people who don't know their gender today

i hope you get a chance to do something nice for yourself today!

🌻🌻🌻

[kinsbin]

i’m on chapter 100 of bleach and it is a wild ride so far

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to anyone who's pronounfluid and whose pronouns change over time: if people can quite easily call a drag queen by she/her pronouns while she's in drag, and use he/him when he isn't in drag, they can definitely use different pronouns for you depending on what you want them to use at certain times. you are not a burden for your gender expression or identity. it isn't too difficult or too complicated (even if it was complicated you still deserve respect and acceptance btw). you're awesome.

[genderfluidarchive]

positivity for:

genderfluid people who use different pronouns at different times

genderfluid people who use multiple pronouns

genderfluid people who always use the same pronouns

genderfluid people who use neopronouns

genderfluid people who use multiple names

genderfluid people who use different names at different times

genderfluid people who use one name

genderfluid people who present differently at different times

genderfluid people who present in one way

genderfluid people who mix and match different aspects of presentation

all the genderfluid people!

🩷🤍💜🖤💙

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had a frustrating day yesterday soooo:

genderfluid people who experience a lot of dysphoria are awesome and valid

genderfluid people who will never be able to have a body that works for all their different genders are awesome and valid

genderfluid people who struggle and get frustrated with their fluidity because it's unpredictable are awesome and valid

genderfluid people are awesome and valid.

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if you're genderfluid and having an identity crisis again, and feeling frustrated, listen

the "actually im definitely transmasc/agender/pangender. idk why i felt _____ before/thought i was _____" is literally what makes you genderfluid.

you were _____, and now you aren't. genderFLUID.

internalized fluidphobia is just kicking your ass again

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HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!!!

and especially to everyone who:

realized they were genderfluid this year

realized they were genderfluid a while ago

doesn't have the opportunity to come out yet

is out and proud

is half out of the closet and waiting to come out the rest of the way

fits stereotypes for their identity

is so far from the stereotype of their identity that ppl get confused

is pronounfluid and/or namefluid

is the only queer person in their family

doesn't have any queer friends irl

is still trying to settle on a label

decided they don't need a label

is also disabled

has multiple marginalized identities

changes their presentation often

lives a double life

can only go to online pride events

rarely sees others with their identity

only presents in one way despite having a fluid identity

i love you. you deserve joy, acceptance, respect, good experiences, and so much more. 🩷🤍🩵❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈

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got approval to make a website focusing on genderfluidity for a university project!!

at least one page is going to be people's personal experiences and descriptions of their fluidity, so if you're genderfluid and interested in putting your words somewhere/contributing, you can message me or submit an ask here (if you submit an anon, i need a name or alias to go with it)

i can also provide questions to prompt you if you want to contribute but aren't sure where to start/what to say

the website will go public when i submit my project, near the end of my semester, so sometime in early may, and i plan to post the link on this blog when it's finished

pls reblog to reach more people!