#kinkasks

[sinningsquire]

kink game, gotta go with spanking i think. so many different opinions on that one!

hahahahahah oh boy. Ooooh boy. If I write E rated fic and someone doesn’t get spanked at least once, I’ve probably dropped out a paragraph in editing. Very much kinksame. Especially when pre-negotiated. (Once read a fic where a bossy masochist trained his partner on how to best spank him. Yummmm.) In fact, I have been kinkshamed on spanking in my own fucking bed, and since then I make sure at least my characters get to have all the fun I don’t. God bless fanfic. 

[dual-daggers]

@ u get older and realize kink isn't as good/is fucked up anon, i have the opposite problem? when i first heard about oviposition i was like 'wtf? gross' now im 24 and im All About Ovi, most of my newer species I've created have ovi in some way/shape/form(some go so far as to put their eggs in partners lmao). Gay stuff used to be enough to get me going but now I need like, bondage and scratching and biting and stuff to really get into it

//Pretty much. I started off by thinking ABO fics were weird and strange. Like, some of ‘em just grow on u after time. And u don’t even realize it until it is too late. U just really start liking a certain kink and it is just askfhlakj eyes.

Also the bondage/Scratching/biting is half the reason I always love villain/hero pairings cause that shit happens quite often in those.

[sinningsquire]

Heat-sex- kinkshame or kinksame?

Heat, as in ABO verses you mean? Or any similar concept, like sex-pollen or aliens-made-them-do-it? I’d say vaguely kinkshame. I just don’t like the fuck-or-die aspect of it, it’s reeking of dubious consent and that’s nope for me. 

[sinningsquire]

breathplay

with the force-choking kink being practically canonised, I’d say kinksame (to an extent, namely, when it’s pre-negotiated - I think I get as much kick, if not more, from a character asking the other to be choked than from the subsequent choking:))

[sinningsquire]

Biting and/or bloodplay?

Kinsame biting, kinkshame bloodplay. The line is drawn at breaking skin (I think it’s the same reason as why I would read 10000 words of spanking but just a mention of whipping has me clicking out of the fic). I think I’ve written a bite drawing blood once, and that was at the bitten character’s explicit demand, and even then the other character gave in after careful consideration. 

(Kissing is an exception, the skin of lips is so fragile that it’s awfully easy to draw blood when the kiss is anger-fueled.)

[sinningsquire]

Rope play?

Kink-meh. I can absolutely see the appeal for the characters, when the setting is right. It just does absolute zero to me. I am even vaguely uncomfortable with the idea of restrained movement so... nope. 

[sinningsquire]

food play

Heh. I have a special category for that and that is food porn. It starts as actual eating/feeding, often hand-feeding (I just love the sensual descriptions of flavours and smells and the way the characters become aroused by watching each other eat) and then the food gets forgotten and other things are eaten, if you get me. 

Or things like body-shots, yeah. That can be sexy. But other than that, the whole whipped cream thing and so on, it’s more like kink-meh. Doesn’t work for me. 

[sinningsquire]

public/semi-public

Kink-dunno? I’ve never perceived this one as kink, honestly :) Unless it’s something like ritualised public claiming, which is very much nope nope kinkshame for me.