I get it. Really, I do. See here:
Impreg, as both a normal thing and as a kink, is a very very big squick for me and just thinking about it bothers me for a few good hours on Bad days. On my Worst days, I can’t even perceive that my body has even the smallest ability to reproduce without sobbing. Luckily it’s an Okay day right now. :>
Despite all of those feelings, all these negative responses to it, I can’t run around and yell at people who fantasize about starting families or people who like breeding farms. That’s so rude!
It’s just so much healthier for both me and them that I just avoid it as much as possible. No matter if I try to twist it to make it a “bad thing” (it’s always paired with rap fantasies, something something power imbalance, yadda yadda) it’s not gonna stop people who like it, and it will only cause me to feel miserable for the effort.
So why would an anti do this with a kink? Any kink? No matter how the anti tries to twist it to make it a bad thing, it’s not gonna stop people who like it, and it will only cause the anti to feel miserable for the effort.
Please save your energy for things you like!