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[weathernerdmando]

So it turns out my hip/pelvis DOES dislocate….

@impartialbias we’re gonna have to be a bit more careful when having Fun in the future ;)

(I walked around a little bit and the pressure seemed to get it back in place. But good to learn!!)

[weathernerdmando]

Intro post, cause why not?

Hi! I'm Jace (he/they/ey/em). I'm queer as hell, a bigender trans dude (dude with a side of agender), arospec and asexual, and the amazing, lovely @impartialbias is my fiancé! (Shes amazing, and she's also an incredibly talented artist, please go check her out and if you're interested commission her!!).

I live in the US, and was adopted from Volgograd, Russia. I am slowly learning and trying to get familiar with my heritage, despite the shit the Russian government is pulling. To be clear, I am very much against Russia’s invasion of Ukraine. Ukraine is an independent country and should have all its territory returned to it, including Crimea and anything else that was invaded.

Also going to say that this blog is not always going to be SFW as of fall 2025 and if you want to block that kind of content, you may filter it out with #nsft or #kinkywxnerd (that one is a bit more memorable and unique). Beyond that, you’ve been warned.

Gonna go ahead and state this to make it crystal clear - I am very much pro-ship because I understand fiction is not real life, and I'm not a fan of censorship for the most part. If that's not your jam, feel free to not interact. Or do, I don't control you, but you've been given a heads up. Along those lines, I am generally what you'd call "inclusionist" regarding the queer community - barring obvious bad faith bullshit like "MAPS" (that's not queer. That's pedophilia. Fuck all the way off with that). Labels are personal and I have experienced too much exclusionism on the basis of being ace alone to be okay with that.

I'm autistic and ADHD, and I have (at least therapist confirmed) OCD as well. Thought that was just the autistic need to line things up and have them be "right" for a while until I got stuck in a cleaning loop of a pot that I was going to try and cook hotdogs in....yeah, turns out it's OCD too.

I'm also dealing with some physical disabilities as well, and as of winter 2025, it’s likely hypermobile ehlers danlos. Genetics came back with a VUS, but its not currently considered clinically significant so hEDS is the current answe. POTS is also confirmed (turns out your heart rate isn't supposed to go from 65 to 110 laying down to sitting up, and then only drop to 105 when standing. And stuff like laundry, and just standing around isn't supposed to be physically exhausting....haha....). I do use a cane and braces when needed.

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I want to potentially go for a meteorology (likely planetary meteorology tbh) masters, hopefully in fall of 2027!

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The most consistent tag is gonna be the personal shit one, lol, but I’m slowly working on updating it. If you’re on desktop, my Tags Reference page has a list, and those are mostly up to date.

[weathernerdmando]

lowkey definitely dislocated the hip when em and i were having adult fun a week or so ago… hip is definitely still looser than normal but I’m not entirely surprised by that - I’m surprised that it had’t gotten this way *before* we accidentally pushed it too far out of place.

It’s occasionally just more sore than it has previously tended to be and it tends to pull on this ligament? Muscle?Cartilage? Idk more than it used to. It’s a warning for me to adjust the hip *now*, but definitely more sensitive to how I’m sitting than I’d gotten adjusted to. (More frequently happening in the car now or at my desk at work, i feel it getting “grabbed” almost and have to shift it so it doesn’t get worse.)

So yeah, be careful if you are engaging in consensual adult fun and have hypermobility and/or a connective tissue disorder. You might dislocate something more easily than you think…lol.