#kintsugihabits

[dearkintsugi]

Wealthy Black Girl Edition

[dearkintsugi]

Dear Soft Black Girl

As a soft black woman I work – however I do not hustle.

I pay my own way without needing to be dependent on anyone. However, if I do need help I reach out to those whom I trust and can depend on.

I am soft however I am not weak – I will defend myself and my inner child without needing to raise my voice or falling to a lower frequency to meet you.

I remove myself from people places and things that bring negativity into my life and shower positive relationships, people and experiences with all my love and attention.

– @dearkintsugi

[dearkintsugi]

My Photos 📷: Do Not Steal – Thank You

After being away from Tumblr for so long it feels great to be back. I wont be treating my blog as I did social media (Instagram/Tiktok) as I've always felt tumblr held a special place in my heart where I could truly be myself. I don't desire the attention or likes that comes with keeping up a social media presence. I found it unfulfilling and draining.

I prefer being nestled in large blankets cuddled up with a Chai Latte or Peppermint Tea typing away in the cozy little corner of the internet called Tumblr.

Tumblr was the first place I felt included and as I grew older a piece of me was lost. However – nothing quite does it like the autumn vibes community and pictures of deep forests on Tumblr.

I won't be making a "theme" I'll just post whatever I want and tag it as #kintsugihabits as a remembrance to my old social media account.

I'm looking forward to this next chapter – full of love , light and updates!

[dearkintsugi]

𝑩𝒍𝒂𝒄𝒌 𝑾𝒐𝒎𝒆𝒏 𝑰𝒏 𝑳𝒖𝒙𝒖𝒓𝒚

📸| All photos belong to me — please do not steal.

[dearkintsugi]

My Photos 📷: Do Not Steal – Thank You

🕊| 𝐈'𝐯𝐞 𝐛𝐞𝐞𝐧 𝐫𝐢𝐝𝐢𝐜𝐮𝐥𝐞𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐡𝐮𝐫𝐭 𝐛𝐲 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐬𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐜𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐯𝐞𝐬 𝐦𝐲 𝐟𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐟𝐚𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐲. 𝐈 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐮𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐚 𝐜𝐲𝐜𝐥𝐞 𝐛𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐤𝐞𝐫 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐫𝐢𝐬𝐞 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐯𝐞 – 𝐞𝐥𝐞𝐠𝐚𝐧𝐭𝐥𝐲, 𝐟𝐢𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐠𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐞𝐟𝐮𝐥𝐥𝐲.

[dearkintsugi]

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It's almost fall!

I recently quit my job, outed my ex-boyfriend for SA and dropped a lot of people this year. I called out every job that walked over me, made me feel small or ignored my claims of harassment. I began telling men to F off and women too. I've entered my 30's with burning crashing fire releasing everything and all of those who doubted and outed me without knowing my full story.

The rashes that appeared all over my skin a few months ago have begun to subside with every release I've made.

Healing is messy, its painful, ugly beautiful and chaotic. I'm the smallest/skinnest I've ever been without an eating disorder, I've been dining out at my favorite restaurants on a daily. I'm fighting my demons and I'm winning – it's almost fall! 🍂