komatsujo replied to your post “This fandom and their tendency to just over criticize Marinette for...”
lol especially given her age and the fact that it's her BIRTHDAY. Marinette was unpopular before this school year. It was probably her first birthday party she'd ever had.
I know??? People tend to always gloss over that fact about Marinette in general because they don’t seem to care about her enough to actually pay attention to her character, but for all we know, this is Marinette’s first big birthday with a lot of friends, friends who she likely wasn’t nearly as close with before because of how shy and insecure she was pre origins.
But even if this wasn’t her first big birthday, it’s still her birthday. First birthday with Alya, that’s for sure, so like excuse her for wanting to go and hang out and be treated to her special day. And what people seem to be missing is that this episode highlighted the generational gap between her and her Grandmom more than criticizing Marinette for ditching her. Her Mami was just extremely surprised and very sad that her grandbaby grew up and grew away from all the things they used to do with Marinette was a CHILD. THAT was the main issue in this story.
But even if people want to fully blame Marinette here for being rude to her Grandmom, she handled it afterwards so beautifully. That bag she made out of the shirt was gorgeous, and their talk at the end with how Marinette explained that any time she could spend with her was precious, while her Grandmom conceded that she was treating her like a child and wanted to do more grown up things with her, was such a nice way to end it! And TIKKI’S present. Like. Urgh. Sorry. Ranted.