#kookminforlife

[chimkookie96]

when you ship a real human, my advice is to keep your boundaries healthy.

simple as this, we don’t need to twist what the person said and change it to your own narrative.

like this one is for the cult /antis who always think jk /th don’t want to be with jm.

to me, its the opposite, both jk and th wanted to be with him.

idk if you aware how chaotic when th and jk together,

jm is the balance.

if i we’re them I would want jm attention too🙃

[chimkookie96]

I am so not good at words and I have so much feelings and the type to feels so so much. I’ve felt this feelings for years since I become an Army. I’ll never shut up the fact that I’ve been with bts and watching jikook since 2014.

it just surreal to see them never change but at the same time remind how me myself never change too. it wasn’t change, it was growth. Jimin and Jungkook growing up, Jimin being less vocal how much he loves jungkook doesn’t mean he’s not. Jungkook pushed him away, doesn’t mean he hates him. They were 18 & 16, Passionate & Shy.

the 18 year old me, first year in college binging every bts contents on youtube, twitter any platform i can get. I still remember when my roommate recommended bts to me, she showed me ‘We are Bulletproof Pt.2’ MV. Jimin caught my eyes right that moment. He’s definitely my type!.

As I become obsessed with bts, I got obsessed with jimin. Everything about him, I love him as he being himself, that passionate young jimin might be embarrassing and funny to watch now as we get older. It’s a sweet memories.

I get it Jimin adores Jungkook since the debut, even before pre debut. He was constantly show and said He loves Jungkook so much. I get him Jungkook have this cuteness about him. I mean even to this day Jungkook is a heartthrob.

Naturally I adores them both, The bangtan bomb where Jimin looking for Jungkook still fresh in my mind. I love seeing them together playing around,talking, teasing each others.

it’s like a serendipity (?) when I think about it deeper. I Didn’t ship them when I saw jikook content or analysis videos. NOPE. I love bts as them seven, but I didn’t plan to love jikook so much until today. It just happened naturally.

It happened naturally when I love jimin, I love everything about him, I see him so I see jungkook, see his affection for him, He cares for Jungkook. loving them made me discover ‘ship’ culture. To this day being in the ship culture is very toxic.

Shipping culture don’t do justice to whatever Jimin and Jungkook have. Their relationship is not just some ship. It’s not even close compare to any other ships in bts or out.

it’s still crazy to me as someone who have been here adoring them both. ‘AYS’ happened felt like a dream. It’s dramatic yes, other people probably won’t understand. Jimin has always careful with his actions and words. the fact he wanted to show us and do this show, I really really really appreciate him doing this for himself and for us.

what Jimin and Jungkook have is a lifetime bond.

They’re inseparable, unbreakable.

I got you, You got me.

I am you, You are me.

I love you, You love me.

[chimkookie96]

Regarding your advice for about shipping within the context of real people, mine would be to make sure you are legitimately at peace with the idea that you may never find out the truth about either individuals' actual relationships, especially them together. If you are not 100% sure you'd be okay with that, be very mindful that you are setting yourself up for unhealthy behavior.

(This advice is not targeting you specifically, just general advice to everyone in shipping spaces. Not sure if I worded that clearly.)

Hey anon, you are my first ever Ask I got on this platform and I appreciate it a lot that’s it’s not something negative

(can’t help but to feel anxious 😂)

I get what you mean and I agree. that’s how I hold myself and make sure to remember at the end of the day,

they’re humans and we are in the real and the fantasy of them AT THE SAME TIME.

they’re my first ship I ever invested my time in my life. I know the dangerous boundaries u cant cross as a fan and I think many people don’t know that.

Shipping supposed to be for fun, and it’s normal people ship whoever they think work well together, and it normal in kpop or fictional characters. People have their free opinions whoever they wanted to ship.

that goes same to Jikook as well, it all started (for me) purely I love jimin he’s my bias since day one, and I know young 18 jm he’s very passionate and very working hard to build his own personality as an idol, and so does 16 jk.

Jimin made me see Jungkook, Jimin mentioned a lot how he adores him, so naturally to me i find that’s very cute.

back then we have many contents of them on youtube etc slowly in time, I love seeing them together and I ended up shipping them and fall into shipping world rabbit hole.

I have never think of them dating for real real (obviously it was 2014-2015) it was just cute seeing them together like a bromance and sweet cute dynamic. the push and pulls and how jungkook grow up so well.

anyway, the thing with toxicity with shippers started in the fandom itself, the people (army) who twists and fighting eo, back then all these ships exist and it’s not a big deal like it is today. i dont even know myself how these people get so obsessed and negative that it almost trying to split apart the unity in the fandom.

i don’t wanna dwell on that. im more than 10years in this fandom and its not good for mental health really 😂 i just wanna grow old with 7 and love jimin and jungkook both passive and active (lol) as they grow old too.

sorry this is long than I intended 😅

[chimkookie96]

Kiss

The truth that Jimin asked Jungkook for a kiss make me cringing emotionally