We already knew why they didn't and still don't date the nerd/ regular Joe type of males cause they wanted a thug, but could never understand women's reasoning for wanting to date a gangster unless she was a gangster herself because the narrative of the thug is more of a man never fit the reasoning of why? So now we know ,you can control the thug but can't control a man who's normally just an everyday joe that's educated, goes to work or is self employed (businessman) , who also is a loyalist/ family oriented person cause that's the way he was raised ,wasn't good enough cause you can't control one who is spiritual and got their head on straight here on earth! You can't make this crap up! Lol Another subject that's out there also is when HS girls dated older men and many of those men were the neighborhood bad guy and when asked why didn't you say anything to the school or parents? But how was that our problem, she didn't want the ones her age and now we got a problem with Ray ray and his homies, naw im good,lol #blackfeminist #jimcrow #koonmala #blackgirlmagic #blackwomen #blackmen #relationshipgoals #control https://www.instagram.com/p/CM-668slkkh/?igshid=25wzdquafmfq
