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thinking about doing an overhaul on my jimin. i feel like his personality is bland. i like his back story but im losing my motivation. i want to make his personality more defined but im not sure how. should i stick with him or start new?
SORRY FOR BEING GONE!
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Sometimes things can’t be erased like they didn’t happen. If he’s not getting better, you shouldn’t necessarily abandon him—if you’re important to him, he’ll need your support. But you should make sure his changes don’t make you depressed, too. Remember that communication is very important in a relationship, especially communication done RIGHT. If you aren’t sure how to talk to him about it without seeming accusing, I’m sure a simple google search will garner you some helpful tips on how to deal with conflict in relationships.
Best of luck to you! I’m sorry to hear things are going sour. ):
See, the problem is people will post relationship statuses that say things like, “Don’t even try,” and yet they’ll get into a relationship later. So slowly, those sorts of r/s messages are being ignored, because the people who do that are making others think it’s not serious.
Also, you should try to consider it from the girls’ points of view. Look at all the male characters in KPOP RP that are homo-, bi-, and pansexual. It’s an insane amount; much higher than the real-life statistics for those sexualities! And since so many KPOP roleplayers OTP two male idols together, it’s even harder for girls to feel like there’s a chance of ever finding someone for their character. With those sorts of circumstances, it’s very easy to become desperate, truly. Have a go at playing a heterosexual girl yourself, and I’m sure you’ll find out~
Really all you can do is make a homosexual character, or make a disclaimer on your page explaining that you are only looking for friends. Be warned, though: if you go back on that, some people may resent you a bit and think of you as a liar.
It’s pretty complicated, huh?
If his roleplay is an open roleplay—meaning he can roleplay with people outside of his directory—why not join a new directory and talk to him with that character? Or if you already have a character that’s single, follow him and talk to him through that character. If your new character’s personality is the same as the old one, you could inform him in ooc that you’re the roleplayer who played your old character, so he has a slight idea of what your personality is. If it’s not the same, then you’re all set to start off on a clean slate! And since you joined a directory you were interested in anyway, you can talk to other people and it won’t just be a character made specifically for him. ^^ Who knows?? You might fall for someone else instead. ;D
It’s probably not a super great idea to talk to him ooc through his personal, especially if you didn’t talk much before. But if you don’t want to roleplay with him, you could send him an ooc message to his roleplay account, telling him you just wanted to chitchat!
Personally, if I were playing an innocent/cute Taemin, I would maybe send a love letter. It’s sincere because it takes time to write, so if the Key doesn’t take it seriously, you may just be out of luck, hon’!
Buuut~ if it’s not like your character to write serious love letters, then you’ll need to reconsider. After all, you know your character best out of anybody!
Couldn’t agree more! Everyone, there are always roleplayers out there like les-sulli here that will care for you, talk to you, and befriend you. You just have to keep looking~
If you two really love each other, there shouldn’t be much of a problem getting closer. Think of your time gone as a small little blip that you can recover from. Don’t be afraid that you’ll do something to make you grow further apart because there’s a possibility that it might if you think too hard about it. I think it would be best to act the same way towards to him from before the hiatus. There’s also a chance that making up for the time may make him feel uncomfortable. BUT - if you feel that you must, ask him what you can do! But to be honest, I think he’s happy enough that you’re back with him :) Good luck!
