kittykittyhunter replied to your post “Every time I see people bring up their frustration with how they don't...”
For me, it's a mixed bag; I enjoy creating content and writing new work, but I find it important to get that validation from a reader. Some of my works are written for the attention of one person, so all I really want is for that individual to get enthusiastic and give me feedback.
Part of it comes from my original intentions. When I write fic, for example, I've got a specific audience in mind, so it does smart when I don't the as much attention as I'd like. With my original works, it's really cool to see people react to it.
Though yeah, I agree that the love of art and making content should be the primary reason for making things. I can't imagine dedicating so much of my life to writing if it was always such a painful process!
kuerbisflocke replied to your post “Every time I see people bring up their frustration with how they don't...”
For me there's a difference in the intention. I create art for myself, so I can enjoy it. If I would bake you a cake, I would do it for you, to make you, happy so when you won't react I would be sad
When you make things for a specific person and they don’t react, it’s perfectly understandable to be unhappy when there’s no reaction at all to gauge whether they like it or not!
In that case, it doesn’t even really matter if it’s about gifts that go unappreciated or commissioned works that go without feedback, or just self-advertising for commissions/giveaways/etc which goes ignored, since all of these have a goal that involves an audience and goes beyond the joy of simply creating.
That’s a very specific context though, and not one I often see adressed - if it is, it’s always very clear, but that is not the kind of complaint I meant. Those would be much more general:
Creators share but the audience doesn’t engage, or not as much as the person thinks it should.
And THAT is where I have trouble following. How does one determine how much or what kind of recognition is adequate?
One measure I can think of is the unfortunate but ever-present comparing of oneself to others and how much attention THEY get; which is a really wobbly measure and also pretty harmful. Also common is “I put so much effort into this and no one reacts”, which makes it seem like recognition by others should be the reward for the effort, but??? I don’t know how it’s for you fellow creators but in my works, a shit-ton of effort doesn’t necessarily SHOW very plainly in the piece. It could, but doesn’t always. Meanwhile, something I just shook out of my sleeve may be received much better.
Anyway, my thoughts are fraying and I’m beginning to ramble I guess. I have a lot to say about this but trouble expressing it neatly. The bottom line though is that I often get the feeling for many people, creating isn’t as much about SHARING WITH the audience but MAKING FOR the audience. The latter just seems like setting yourself up for disappointment when you put the worth of your stuff in other people’s hands (or heads).
I fully encourage people to create art THEY like, even love and are truly passionate about, so if nobody eats their cake, they can happily eat it themselves.