Kylo Ren *NSFW* HC List
xFemale!Reader || awww it’s been awhile I missed him! (SFW Alphabet)
List made by @caitlinpotter
A = Aftercare (What they’re like after sex)
He gets quiet — Kylo's not used to used to extreme amounts of love, both giving and receiving, that includes physical / sexual, emotion sexually is a very strong feeling, especially when he can pick up things beyond just thought, but feelings with the force. When you let yourself be so vulnerable with him in every way, and in such an emotional way, he feels as though he’s unworthy to have had experienced it so deeply with you.
↳ that being said, usually he cuddles super close against you and just holds you close. When you stroke his hair and rub his back, he nuzzles a little closer listening to your heartbeat. Other times he’s behind you, keeping you tight against his chest, as he holds your hands in front of you, feeling you catch your breath, that’s when you kiss his hands or stroke his forearms, before guiding his hands where to rest on you.
He asks if you’re okay — despite his domineering presence to the First Order, he really has a genuine soft side. He always asks if there’s anything you need and if he can do anything to make you more comfortable. He also asks if he can hold you again in the aftermath; because you’ve been so close for a good while he assumes you might want space from him, but he’s always shocked when you don’t mind him staying close.
B = Body part (Their favourite body part of theirs and also their partner’s)
Not a body part — while Kylo is not super confident in his looks, not quite frankly someone who frets over them, he is quite confident in his strength. With that, he’s always confident he can pick you up, either to sweep you off your feet to a secluded place, or to keep you pinned against the wall while he fucks you. Win-win situation.
Lips — Kylo has a tendency to stare at your lips, particularly when he’s in the mood. He just loves the shape and the colour of your lips, when you talk he stares at them and sometimes gets a little lost in thought about the taste of your mouth and the feeling of your lips against his or his skin. When you notice him staring you tend to tease him by a simple lip bite or roll of your tongue across them, which draws his attention back up to you.
Neck — during sex he almost always dips his head to kiss your neck and rest his forehead against your collarbone, giving you the perfect angle to play with his hair. When he begins foreplay, he almost always begins with kisses to your neck, it starts out soft and sweet, but quickly moves to deeper, more passionate, hot wet kisses along your neck. That’s the most frequent places you’ll get hickeys should there be any.
C = Cum (Anything to do with cum basically… I’m a disgusting person)
Ladies first — somehow, Kylo always manages to get you to cum first. When you ask him about it in a moment of breathlessness after sex he just answers “ladies first” with a smile. He can also make it happen more than once, you’re pretty sure more than that and you’d pass out thanks to the intensity of your orgasms that he induces.
D = Dirty Secret (Pretty self explanatory, a dirty secret of theirs)
He likes it rough — while it's not rough every time or even the majority of the time, you've found that Kylo like it rough, both in giving and receiving. He likes leaving hickeys on your skin and fucking you hard, but he also likes when you bite his lip and pull his hair. He likes when you drag your nails down his back or grip his bicep so hard you leave crescent shaped bruises.
E = Experience (How experienced are they? Do they know what they’re doing?)
Status — you’re not really sure about his experience, given that he was on the path to becoming a Jedi, you’re pretty sure you’re his first. Regardless, he knows what he’s doing, it feels very instinctual with him. You didn’t have to tell him a whole lot the first time, but he seemed to just know what you liked from the beginning and it’s only gotten better since. You actually wind up asking him if he can do this or that again. You’ve even joked that he reads your mind when you’re in the mood, so he knows what you want before anything really starts.
F = Favourite Position (This goes without saying. Will probably include a visual)
Facing you — really he just loves anything where you’re face to face, chest to chest, that way he can both kiss you and fuck you at the same time. He loves seeing you and being able to bite your neck or lip at any time during sex. He’ll grab your thigh, either the side or just under you knee, bringing it up to get a little shift in position. Usually his chest is pressed against yours and his hair is softly falling against your face or you feel it tickle against your neck. With spread eagle, you'll keep yourself in place by holding onto his forearms, or by wrapping your legs around him.
Behind — he's also quite good from behind, either you stomach down, or both of you on your sides. If you're stomach down, he'll and squeeze the side of your hips to keep you in place and on pace. When you're on your side, he'll wrap an arm around your chest / collarbone to keep you flesh against him.
Cowgirl — sitting or lying, it's not often that you're on top, but when you want to be he doesn't protest. He's got his hands all over you the entire time though, front, back, your sides, caressing your jawline and pulling you down into a kiss, he's still all over you. He does tend to keep a hand against the small of your back to help guide the pace and movements.
G = Goofy (Are they more serious in the moment, or are they humorous, etc)
Serious, but fun — there are moments of you giggling against his shoulder and him smiling at you throughout, but it’s definitely not a goofy atmosphere. There’s a serious presence of passion and energy. When you come off your first orgasm and laugh, a little embarrassed at how intense it was, you begin apologising with “wow, sorry-“ because you realised you hadn’t been doing any movement expect in reaction to your high, Kylo just smiled with a soft chuckle, stroking your side and saying “it’s okay, you’re perfectly fine.” So you always know it’s okay to laugh and smile in the middle of sex with him.
I = Intimacy (How are they during the moment, romantic aspect…)
Romantic — Kylo’s definitely more on the romantic side than anything else, he wants you to feel good and loved and beautiful during it all. So when he picks up on you feeling insecure he either suggests positions that he knows make you feel a little more confident about yourself, or he really tries to not make you have to “work” hr just wants to pleasure you and not have you worry about how you look, how you’re making him feel, or anything else, he wants you to know he loves you as you are, as you look, and as you make him feel.
J = Jack Off (Masturbation headcanon)
Helps out — there have been moments when you’ve missed him or he hasn’t had as much time as you were hoping, so you work out your sexual desires on your own, thinking nothing of it. What you forget is that Kylo has a very deep telepathic sense (thanks to the force), and so should he turn his attentions towards you in the moment, he knows exactly what’s going on. Once of twice he’s come in on the situation, and simply asked if you needed a hand (he’s never made you feel guilty about not waiting or anything). He also asks what you want and how you want it, making sure you still feel your in control as you would be if he wasn’t there, so hr literally only provides his hands and maybe an extra touch / kiss here or there if you request for it.
K = Kink (One or more of their kinks)
Lingerie — Kylo definitely has a kink for fucking you in your lingerie, specifically silk. The mixture of your skin and the silky fabric under his hand as he slips it across your body revealing more and more of you as he goes. The teasing element of him feeling your movements underneath the fabric before he slips a hand under it. And simply the sexiness of you in lingerie. It’s an added texture that feels good and is soft enough to be comfortable against both of you.
Choking — what a shock, yes, Kylo has a choking kink. Except in this context, he prefers to physical have his hand around your throat, he knows the limit and never crosses it, in fact he rarely gets close to your limit. He loves the way your moans sound, more hoarse and heavy, and the gasps you give when he releases your throat as sublime. He also tends to kiss your neck immediately afterwards. Feeling you take a deep breathe, he swipes his tongue across the front of your neck and kisses along the side and base of your neck, caressing the other side with his hand tenderly now.
Hair pulling — both receiving and giving (more so receiving, if you’re not into it, it’s not make or break). Kylo loves to have your hands in his hair during sex, stroking, combing, pulling, anything. He just likes how it feels, he loves when he’s close and you take a fistful of his hair, it sends him over the edge.
The Mask (reader kink, optional) — when you talk to him about keeping the mask on during sex, he smiles and raises his eyebrows out of slight humour and shock. “Really?” He asks through a smile, which is when you start to shyly explain how his voice sounds sexy through it and you kind of want to try it out, just once. . . or twice. Needless to say, he’ll try it and you were right, it’s definitely sexy.
L = Location (Favourite places to do the do)
Private chamber — it’s the perfect place. It has a bed, a desk, bathroom counter, shower, etc. He can also lock the door and no one else has the code, not even Hux. It also makes the space much more intimate and your own knowing it’s a safe place where no one will disturb you. The bed is the preference, but nothing’s off limits in his private chamber, and there have definitely been experiments to see where you both like it best.
Now. . . — that’s not to say you haven’t walked out of a spare closet a little smiley and clothes disheveled once or twice, that’s definitely happened.
M = Motivation (What turns them on, gets them going)
Seeing you wet —when you walk right out of the shower, towel or robe around yourself, Kylo can't help but stare. He has no idea why, but he really has a thing for you wet. It could even be as simple as you coming back from a planet that was raining, when you walk back on the bridge, drenched, looking up at him through your damp eyelashes, he thinks you're just beautiful and finds it a little difficult to speak.
Erogenous zones — Kylo is super sensitive to touch, so even if you tenderly or sweetly touch him in one of his sweet spots (lower stomach, nape of his neck, back / between shoulder blades, or just under his bottom lip), it's a bit of a turn on. You could be simply nuzzling yourself against his back and slip your hand around and under his shirt, immediately you'd feel him tense a little and then relax, soon he'd get much more physical.
Jealous — Kylo himself gets pretty jealous, and can then have a spike in desire for you, but he finds it quite attractive when you get jealous, even though he never makes you jealous on purpose. Sometimes if he has to work with a lot of other First Order females, you'll just get jealous that they get to be so close so often. That being said, you get frustrated and very protective of him. When he gets back to his chamber with you, you're all tense and venting about "did you notice how close she was?- She was practically trying to get you to notice her- I mean did you see-" / Kylo just chuckles, "you know you're the only one I notice-" / "Good," you huff, turning around to kiss him way deeper than he was expecting, "'cause you're mine."
Obvious — if you're wearing a certain lingerie or outfit that you know he likes it can be a turn on, especially depending what you're doing. / When you start the foreplay it's obviously a turn on. / And honestly the sounds you make are a major motivator, he loves hearing your little breathes and whines, before and during sex.
N = NO (Something they wouldn’t do, turn offs)
Never — anything that makes you feel demeaned or uncomfortable, also nothing that hurts you, nothing public.
O = Oral (Preference in giving or receiving, skill, etc)
Preference — he actually prefers giving over receiving. He claims you have the best taste, and he loves feeling you climax with his arms hooked under your legs pinning you in place as he brings you over the wave of pleasure and into your orgasm. He loves being between your thighs with your hands in his hair and your body reacting to his every movement. However you like it, he does it, he’ll go down on his knees while you lean back against the counter top, he’ll let you sit on top, he’ll go traditional with you on your back.
Skill — Kylo has the skill, and has certainly learned how you like it in this regard, he’s more confident with his hands than with his mouth, but not bad with his mouth either.
P = Pace (Are they fast and rough? Slow and sensual? etc.)
Naturally — it varies, but typically is deep and sensual. It never feels rushed and is always enough to feel everything happening. It’s a whole experience not just a wham-bam done moment. Kylo is very good at going with the emotion and matching the pace to create the best pleasure as you go.
What’s decided — it also depends if there’s something someone is more in the mood for. If it’s talked about ahead of time then you’ll have a specific atmosphere that you want to create, which he’s down with too.
Rough — there is 100% a rough side to Kylo, sometimes there are just moments where he wants you bad. Only after asking if it's okay will he actually get rough, but once he knows you're feeling up to it that time, it's like a whole new level of intense. You've never been pounded harder and your orgasms have never been so intense. He will literally get you screaming his name out of pleasure and digging your nails into his skin.
Q = Quickie (Their opinions on quickies rather than proper sex, how often, etc.)
Not the biggest fan — he definitely prefers to have as much time as needed, no time limit really. While he’s okay with quickies if the mood is really there, he’d actually just prefer to give you oral or have a fingering session over actual sex if there’s such a time limit.
R = Risk (Are they game to experiment, do they take risks, etc.)
If you suggest — he’s not one to suggest a lot of experimentation, but if you bring it up, he might be more down with what you had in mind. If it’s something that you already know if a no from him, he’ll still stick with it being a no go, but there are other things, such as blindfolding that he’d be down with.
S = Stamina (How many rounds can they go for, how long do they last…)
You’ve never hit his max — you always tap out before him, so you’re pretty sure he could just keep going, but the most you two have gone is three rounds. He can last, but he can also recover from an orgasm pretty fast and keep going.
U = Unfair (how much they like to tease)
Voice — when he found out that you like his voice with the mask on, sometimes he’ll say suggestive things just to get a reaction out of you, Hux is completely oblivious, but Kylo knows exactly what he’s doing to you.
He’s not terrible — he’s not a big teaser if it’s in public, in fact it’s close to none when on public, just because of the position he holds and how he had to look to everyone in the First Order. You’re probably more of the tease out of the two of you.
V = Volume (How loud they are, what sounds they make)
Orgasms — he’s definitely not one make much volume, but you always know, first by the feeling inside you, the pulse, but also by Kylo’s body language. He might give a staggered moan or a desperate breathy curse under his breath, but when his body tenses and you feel him drop a little further down against your body you know.
Overall — he’s definitely not silent, but he’s not loud either. It’s moderate and depends on the situation. If he’s been gone and is seeing you again for the first time in a while, he’s going to slip a lot of compliments and “I’ve missed you so much” in there. If it’s just a spur of the moment, he’s probably going to be more on the quiet side, except for the obvious heavy breaths and moans due to the activity itself.
X = X-Ray (Let’s see what’s going on in those pants, picture or words)
Above average — not really shocking to you, even though he doesn’t talk about it whatsoever. You first found out when you were really getting heavy with the foreplay. You were sitting in his lap, rocking your hips down against his when you felt it. You dropped your jaw mid-kiss and Kylo asked “what?” Pulling back you glanced down and said “you didn’t tell me-“ to which he interjects, “I don’t really like to talk about it, I don’t think it’s necessary, unless we need to?” You smile, leaning back into him, “oh no, it speaks for itself.”
Y = Yearning (How high is their sex drive?)
When the mood hits — it is pretty damn high when the mood hits. There’s kind of no stoping his desire, even if he had to wait for it, the drive doesn’t fade or decline. So when it’s there, it’s there. But he definitely has self control over it, and knows time and place and always respects if you're not in the mood.
Z = ZZZ (… how quickly they fall asleep afterwards)
It depends — there’s no always as to who falls asleep first or how fast, it entirely depends upon the day, what all happened. If it was a rough day for him, he’ll fall asleep first and faster.
↳ usually when he falls asleep first, his arms are wrapped around your frame and his head is either against your chest or against your stomach. You close your eyes and comb through his hair until you feel him softly breathing, sound asleep.
