#lavi rambles

[etheviese]

happy four months, my love!! ♡

[laviluka]

Voltron: Look! Gay characters!!

Also Voltron: One died and came back and one is dead for good! We love representation!

[etheviese]

unbaked loaf bread

[etheviese]

my heart. look at my babies

[etheviese]

ah yes, me and my questionable life decisions 👍

[etheviese]

the older i get, the more i realize girl code is less about “claiming” men and more about protecting each other’s dignity. it’s noticing when your friend likes someone and deciding not to make a spectacle out of it. it’s understanding boundaries without needing to be begged. it’s knowing when attention is harmless and when it starts becoming humiliating for someone else. some girls don’t understand this because they treat every ounce of male attention like survival. and honestly? it’s exhausting to watch. especially when you were one of the people defending her, protecting her, standing up for her — only to realize later that she can be reckless with other people’s feelings too.

there’s a kind of disappointment that doesn’t explode loudly. it just quietly changes the way you see someone forever.

[etheviese]

i think the reason i got so angry wasn’t because of men. men disappoint people every day. whatever. it was because i kept expecting softness from someone who kept choosing ego instead. because tell me why a girl would knowingly flirt with the guy her friend likes right in front of her. tell me why she’d keep going even after seeing the hurt on her friend’s face. tell me why she’d ignore every attempt to calm her down like being desired mattered more than dignity. and maybe the saddest part is that she probably doesn’t even see herself as cruel. just wanted. just admired. just validated. but there comes a point where constantly needing attention turns you into someone emotionally unsafe to love, trust, or even be friends with

[etheviese]

i am so disappointed in you