#learn from us

[this-boy-is-exhausted]

HOLY FUCKING SHIT!!!!!!!!! PORTUGAL WON EUROVISION!!!!!!!!!

MY COUNTRY WON THE FUCKING EUROVOSION SINGING IN PORTUGUESE!!!!!!! IN OUR NATIVE LANGUAGE

[queenapple]

B*ronica is gonna be that one couple everyone fantasizes about and twists all their scenes into romance and pretends that they're rly gay lmfao dis is the ship the writers and the actors are all gonna get bullied for and accused of 'queerbaiting' with so I hate it already tbh.... Destiel 2.0. SPN fam knows

It’s already happening what do you mean “gonna”

[kala-ya-aan]

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Dedicated to our babies we ain’t get to see yet due to abortion or miscarriage and to the children we’ll have in the near future. This is a letter to my unborn... 

[meg-louise-giry]

Britain’s Brexit Ballsup

I hope other countries learn from Britain’s Brexit Ballsup. Please do.

Which do you vote for? 

OPTION A: The devil you know

OPTION B: The devil you don’t know, who might be an angel but might be Satan Himself, who you will have to fight tooth and nail with for three years.

Make sure you know what your Exit Deal will be if you decide to leave the EU. Let’s assume you’re a citizen of Denmark, and Denmark is planning a referendum to decide whether or not to leave the EU. (I don’t know if Denmark are considering this, it’s just an example.) BEFORE you hold a referendum, make sure your politicians have a plan in place, a deal signed and sealed with the EU, specifying what will happen.

Don’t let the Leave campaign seduce you with empty promises when they cannot possibly know what the outcome of “Dexit” (or whatever) will be. This was Britain’s biggest mistake. We had no idea what Brexit would mean for us. We still don’t, and the deadline is only 18 days away. The Leave Campaign conducted themselves as though it was a popularity contest and all that mattered was getting the most votes. Because they didn’t need to concern themselves about what happened after 23rd June 2016, just getting the votes. It’s not them who would have to work out what winning would mean.

Make sure your Prime Minister (or equivalent) has a concrete plan in place.

And for God’s sake, don’t let your politicians squabble amongst themselves.  There have been 24 resignations from Government over Brexit since the snap election in 2017.

Don’t make the mistake Britain made. Make the Deal first. Know what you are voting for BEFORE you vote. 

[little-rogue-wolf-blog]

It’s strange how a website full of teenagers understand how to treat people equally better than a room full of politicians. The adults tell us to grow up yet they behave as if they were still living in the 1960s.

[mommyslittleone]

There were a lot of things that worked for our relationship. She was accepting of my kinks, fascinated me, and did genuinely care for me. But we both had problems. No one in my life had ever talked to me first (not friends or crushes), and I thought that meant something. At the beginning, she would text me all the time or talk to me on Skype. I felt needed, wanted before we were even together. She did try to pull away at the beginning to protect me from her depression (which I didn't know she had then), but I stopped her. Maybe that was my first mistake. I mistook that she needed to talk to me, and I didn't know she needed space. When we were together, at first she was clingy, and I didn't mind as long as I got some space. It felt good to be needed...but then she started pulling away, telling me she didn't want to talk. I resisted because I felt that would be hard for her. Yet at the same time, it had become hard for me. I'm not sure if it's because I wanted to be needed or I felt like I wasn't getting enough in our relationship. By enough, I mean the things I wanted with someone: to go on dates, to hug and kiss, to have sex, to hold hands, and to grow closer. I was partly trying to make up with that by talking as often as possible. I was afraid we would grow apart. But I could tell she could be alone now, that she didn't have the 'need' to talk to me. I was relieved, proud, but the change was too sudden to be okay on my end. When we took that break, I missed her like crazy and wanted to talk to her. I couldn't understand how we could just not talk. Maybe it was because what I had actually needed was IRL togetherness, so that I could feel fulfilled and not have to talk as often. Well, you live and learn. Now I know no one wants to talk to you everyday...that people need space. But what really got to me...what really showed me it wasn't right was this: she wasn't sexually attracted to me. She didn't feel anything when we kissed and she didn't want to have sex with me. It wasn't me in that regard, it was how she felt towards anyone. So many times, I had thought about when we would finally have sex. Some people can be okay in that kind of relationship, but not me. I have to have that. I know she didn't tell me to protect me from getting hurt...that she did really love me romantically...but she misunderstood. That wouldn't have hurt me (if you're not sexually attracted to me then that's not going to change). But it would have been the deal breaker. Maybe a part of her knew that... It hurts that she had to lie about that. It hurts that she had to lie about anything. I only ever wanted her to be honest. But I know she was scared that I would leave her forever. *sighs* And I'm just not that fickle of a person. Even if we're not together (which I know is better for us), I'm not never going to talk to her again. I'm not never going to rp with her again. I'm not never going to see her again. I'm not never going to let her treat me like a little girl (because we both like that). I'm not going to block her, unfollow her, or change my number without telling her. I've grown apart from people in my life, but if they send me a message or call me, I'll answer. I don't just cut people out of my life. *sighs* I'm a genuine, good person. As long as someone wants me in their life, I'm there.