I'm not looking to offend your father-in-law and friends, but making Yule a Pagan holiday is somewhat disrespectful to Scandinavians. We celebrate it as a largely secular event, a reaffirmation of family and friendship ties, and neither Christianity nor Asatru has much to do with it here - even the sizeable Muslim population in my country celebrates Yule. It's about good food and gifts and lights to combat the onset of winter depression when it's dark 18 hours a day, and everyone is invited. :)
Oh wow, I was unaware! Thank you for teaching me, Cyan! I hadn’t realized that the celebration of Yule as a winter solstice holiday by pagans was something of an appropriation.
And I can’t see where that would be offensive, as I’m willing to bet many of those I’ve met who do celebrate Yule in such a way aren’t even aware that it’s still very much a practiced and cultural thing in Scandinavia.
I hope my holiday navel-gazing didn’t cause any offense to you, Cyan. Or for any of my Scandinavian friends and followers. <3
Also: That sounds like a really cool, fun celebration!